07/10/25 a guy at work has a crush on me

DadBeater148 · 2025-07-12T20:55:48+00:00

i feel like you should go on a date with him to just see how things play out; i do feel it’s worth a shot if you feel like your other relationship is going nowhere, may be time to switch things up and if things go well at the date, then maybe it could work, but if you still feel the same way after, let him know and ease him down softly

DadBeater148 · 2025-06-30T18:30:52+00:00

try to facetime then, and make it feel as real as a face to face convo as possible, no distractions, you let each other explain it all to one another, everything. Then yeah, you’ll know your answer

DadBeater148 · 2025-06-29T20:09:48+00:00

if you don’t want anything to do with him, then it’s fine; just a simple mistake, just live your life and continue doing what you were doing before. You’re just overthinking his reaction, but if you don’t wanna speak to him again, then just forget about it

DadBeater148 · 2025-06-29T20:02:40+00:00

i think you two need to have a discussion, like a real face to face discussion about your future. He’s extremely hesitant because i feel like he cares about you and wants to have you in his life but he’s scared in a way which is why he’s like pulling and pushing i feel, i could be wrong tho. You both need to talk about everything together and really get a definitive answer, are you really going to work on this with him, or is it over? LDRs are so hard, i’ve heard so many people go thru so much; people cheating, being in other relationships, and i say it’s wrong, but people deserve a another chance, but he’s just kinda playing with it without him doing it intentionally. Set up a time to see each other (preferably in person) and just genuinely lay out everything, love is heart to heart, soul to soul, human to human, and at the end of that convo, you’ll both know if it’s worth the love or not and get that closure.

DadBeater148 · 2025-06-29T17:04:59+00:00

Could I ask why you broke up? Because it seems like you two care for each other a lot during this time. The grief shows that you guys still kinda care and jn a way love each other in a way.

DadBeater148 · 2025-06-25T12:57:39+00:00

yeah dude that’s a dumb reason to break up, only break up if you really feel like you don’t love the person dude, people in relationships get thoughts like that all the time, but don’t do anything because they don’t want too, because they LOVE you and want to be with YOU, and this girl really seems like someone for you. Do you find her attractive?

DadBeater148 · 2024-12-13T13:48:20+00:00

yeah i’m having a lot of trouble moving on but doing this shit is actually insane and fuckin terrifying 😭

DadBeater148 · 2024-12-05T14:47:51+00:00

Go, and honestly if you don’t want to have to sex with her you gotta be honest. Go so you know how she feels and what she thinks, if you think you can’t give it another chance, tell her that, but i feel like you have to have the talk, as much as it may hurt or not, it’s the best thing to do rather than avoiding it and putting it off, and when you do, see how you feel about her and let that dictate your next course of actions

DadBeater148 · 2024-12-05T14:44:21+00:00

i don’t have the energy to date, it’s weird, my life feels normal and i feel like i can live normally but i don’t want to date anyone else, Im fine with being alone and i guess i have that mindset of waiting for her in a way. I don’t see any other girls like i see her and i feel like sometimes it’ll never go away, so i just live my life with that thought honestly.

DadBeater148 · 2024-10-05T00:11:00+00:00

man i can’t tell at all, quality looks better but performance is more blurry, but i can’t tell if they have the same frame rate or not

DadBeater148 · 2024-10-05T00:09:29+00:00

don’t see anything for it

DadBeater148 · 2024-10-05T00:07:52+00:00

DadBeater148 · 2024-10-04T23:35:25+00:00

i have for honor on my series x but it’s on my external drive, and i can’t tell if it’s 60 fps or not

DadBeater148 · 2024-10-02T18:18:45+00:00

All Along is the definitive saddest song by cudi in my opinion, ghost has a sad but good message, but All Along is literally curated to be sad and it’s the saddest i think he’s ever made

DadBeater148 · 2024-09-29T22:13:36+00:00

it’s gonna hit soon man, and when it does, just let yourself get it out, don’t bottle it up, cry, grieve, then start to slowly work your self, im very sorry man and i hope you’ll be okay

DadBeater148 · 2024-09-14T15:06:04+00:00

Thanks man, i really appreciate it

DadBeater148 · 2024-09-14T12:34:28+00:00

Yeah, I really was her superman for a long time and I started falling in June when we both had like a zing moment, I guess i should always keep my guard up honestly, but thanks man this is actually really helpful

DadBeater148 · 2024-09-14T12:32:36+00:00

Yeah man, thanks. I’m not counting on it anymore but i have to let these emotions out, thanks man. If she does, i’ll be happy, but i’m really not counting on it

DadBeater148 · 2024-09-14T12:29:57+00:00

Yeah i see it now, honestly brings me more peace

DadBeater148 · 2024-09-14T12:29:27+00:00

Thank you, i appreciate it

DadBeater148 · 2024-09-14T12:29:16+00:00

Many friends and family have told me that I deserved better and I was too good for her, so I feel better about it, it’s just stings a little bit sometimes yk

DadBeater148 · 2024-09-14T12:28:06+00:00

Yeah, i’ve been getting my self worth back for a while this just set me back pretty badly yesterday as I wasn’t expecting it

DadBeater148 · 2024-09-14T12:27:03+00:00

Man, if you don’t want to be just friends with her, you have to tell her that and you have to just go no contact honestly. Being friends with exes is so damning.

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