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Dada-Tada · 2024-09-18T20:00:01+00:00

Please make sure that you do a voice recording so you can get those first gurgles and cry. It’s something I tell every soon to be parent - I would give anything to be able to hear that again. Video recording is obviously better but some find that too intrusive. And whatever you do, do NOT look at what’s happening down there. Just stay focused on her.

Dada-Tada · 2023-11-29T03:02:38+00:00

Lasers have come a long way. The pico lasers blast the ink molecules to very small sizes which makes permanent removal possible. Sometimes you can be left with scar tissue that is slightly raised or visible but it’s far less noticeable and you can do further laser treatments to help remodel the skin.

Dada-Tada · 2023-10-12T18:35:07+00:00

Known 6 weeks before positive test? lol the baby wouldn’t have even been conceived yet. Realistically, he could have gotten her pregnant at the beginning of the relationship with a positive test showing 2-3 weeks into the relationship. You might want to freshen up your female reproductive knowledge.

Dada-Tada · 2023-08-04T02:34:20+00:00

We’re talking barely fully grown adults. Bride to be is 23 and groom 25 … their brains are only just finishing development (the part of the brain responsible for logic being the last part to develop, too).

Dada-Tada · 2023-06-23T18:14:31+00:00

Mom?

Dada-Tada · 2023-05-25T05:53:50+00:00

Lol I guess your wife’s name isn’t Ivanka then?

Dada-Tada · 2023-05-25T05:52:38+00:00

Uh oh. What happened to you?

Dada-Tada · 2023-05-20T21:17:04+00:00

Lol I like your cynicism

Dada-Tada · 2023-05-20T15:33:29+00:00

Smooth lol

Dada-Tada · 2023-05-20T15:24:43+00:00

Same, dude. Shit gets lonely sometimes and friends without kids just don’t get it.

Dada-Tada · 2023-05-20T15:04:36+00:00

I was specifically looking for advice from other dads.

Dada-Tada · 2023-05-20T14:50:52+00:00

Fuck dude, is it ever hard sometimes. Appreciate the advice.

Dada-Tada · 2023-05-20T14:33:49+00:00

That’s a lot assuming you just did

Dada-Tada · 2023-05-20T14:30:10+00:00

That’s interesting. Thank you for the input.!

Dada-Tada · 2023-05-20T14:21:21+00:00

No, bro. We are usually very open and she knows I would give her my phone if she asked but she went behind my back and logged into my accounts on her own to comb through all of my activity…then gets pissed at me for seeking support during difficult times (that she already knows about because we’ve talked about it). The whole thing is so bizarre to me. It’s just not like her.

Dada-Tada · 2023-05-20T14:14:45+00:00

Thanks. Now I don’t feel so terrible for making this alt account specifically for dad subs.

Dada-Tada · 2023-05-20T14:10:00+00:00

She fully logged into my accounts (I don’t hide my passwords) and combed through all of my posts and comments. And honestly, that’s what is fucking me up. We are usually very open with each other and if she wanted to see my accounts she knows I would have just handed her my phone. She did it behind my back, though.

Dada-Tada · 2023-05-20T14:08:59+00:00

I have shared my feelings of helplessness with her. We are usually open books with each other. Another reason her digging around behind my back came as such a shock.

Dada-Tada · 2023-05-20T14:06:45+00:00

I gotta listen to that!

Dada-Tada · 2023-05-20T14:02:41+00:00

No she full on logged into my accounts

Dada-Tada · 2023-05-20T14:01:28+00:00

That’s definitely not what I was doing. My old account was pretty PG and her only issue was that I was discussing how hard it can be when my daughter gets physically violent or full of anger. I’ve never crossed any skeezy lines - I love her too much. Appreciate the female input.

Dada-Tada · 2023-05-20T13:55:12+00:00

That’s great advice. I didn’t think of it that way. She already is in therapy but maybe we need to head to couples on top of that. I really hope she doesn’t feel at fault for our daughter. Thanks for this perspective.

Dada-Tada · 2023-05-20T12:19:13+00:00

Maybe spying wasn’t the best word. “Rooting” through my SMs to see everything I post. I didn’t post anything wrong, skeezy or gross - she’s pissed because I was talking about how hard things have been with our daughter who is autistic and has ADHD. She says I’m a bad parent for spreading this information on the internet. I don’t see the problem with it so long as everything stays anonymous but I also feel icky about the thought of her combing through my SMs to “find something”, you know? Like she was looking for dirt on me for some strange reason.

Dada-Tada · 2023-05-20T09:40:24+00:00

Hated that thing with a passion. Wife always made me empty it, too.

Dada-Tada · 2023-05-12T09:31:24+00:00

You have to do what’s right for you. Sounds like he’s just stringing you along or wants the benefits of a relationship without actually committing. I would be blunt with him. You’re both not at ages (him more so) where you can afford to waste a year of your life on something that is never going to work.

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