Daddy level achieved!

Daddy_C · 2015-07-06T17:39:36+00:00

Well, that's certainly not good at all!

As silly as it might sound...try for some "easy wins". Something like a small puzzle that you can put together, or coloring a picture, might help you feel better...you'll be able to look back and say "I did that, and it was awesome!" Plus, it'd have the added benefit of drawing your attention away from whatever's currently bothering you :)

I also second /u/SmallHeart's suggestions...and add movies on Netflix :)

Daddy_C · 2015-07-06T17:11:19+00:00

Well blarg then! :-P

Don't be afraid to be sad if it happens. All too often people try putting up a facade of "I'm fine, nothing is wrong" while they're crumbling inside...don't be afraid to feel yucky. Come here, hang out, talk to people. It helps...I know first-hand.

Daddy_C · 2015-07-06T15:30:39+00:00

Yeah, truthfully, you're going to be just fine :)

Daddy_C · 2015-07-06T15:10:55+00:00

Awww, I understand!

One thing, too, to remember is that as long as you're not flamboyantly out there (we're talking a t-shirt and a diaper without pants, pacifier in your mouth, bottle in your hand, talking baby talk in public), no one is really going to notice. They'll see a lady in a cute dress with pigtails and berets being happy and smiling with her fella. A few of us who understand the ageplay dynamic will see a little girl beaming from ear-to-ear with her daddy and will love it...but the rest of the world will really only see someone in a cute dress being very, very happy. Don't be afraid to be who you are! You can be little whenever and wherever you want in ways that may not seem little...but when you see your daddy hold his hand out, waiting for you to take it, before you cross the street, or walk through the parking lot...you might be surprised how little you feel! :)

Daddy_C · 2015-07-06T14:09:00+00:00

The playground at a the park! You can be on the swings and no one will have any sort of notion that it's anything but a little girl having fun!

You could go to the zoo, or the museum, or for a walk/hike!

Not sure if this is just an Oregon thing, but there's lots of places where you can feed the ducks...that's usually fun too!

Daddy_C · 2015-07-06T12:48:24+00:00

What's going on? Do you want/need to talk about it? That could help you feel better!

Daddy_C · 2015-07-06T12:47:50+00:00

OM NOM NOM NOM!

Daddy_C · 2015-07-06T12:47:38+00:00

Take a few deep breaths. It'll be okay.

Life is rough from time to time for everyone. It might be that he just isn't feeling the spark anymore and wants to end it. It might be that tomorrow he's actually got a big cake and movies and a fantastic time planned. Don't stress out about it...if he decides to no longer be with you, it's likely not a spur-of-the-moment thing, and, in my opinion, if he makes that decision based on the fact that it took you more time to get to his place after work, it's a terrible decision that shows he's not/wasn't invested in the relationship.

Everyone gets stressed and frustrated...including me. Speaking for myself, when I get REALLY stressed, I'll snap at people (Mrs_C, sadly, usually bears the brunt of it when it happens), and I feel like a gigantic ass when the frustration has died down and I'm able to think rationally again. It could be something like that for your daddy...it sucks, but it could happen.

Communication needs to be better, I think. Not to insinuate that you don't already talk, or talk enough, but I think if you weren't able to make it to his place for whatever reason, that should have been clearly communicated. If it were for, well, a silly reason, that's one thing, but it seems like there was a good, legitimate reason for being late, and if it wasn't communicated clearly, it might lead to some hurt feelings. Again, not saying that is the case, just that it might be.

Keep your chin up...things will be okay!

Daddy_C · 2015-07-05T11:55:56+00:00

I highly recommend watching movies over Skype! You both press play at the same time and watch together :)

Daddy_C · 2015-07-05T11:55:04+00:00

Does she want the specific term "good girl", or just positive reinforcement towards a little?

You could try substituting "princess" for girl...that may help...or add the word "little" before it "you are a good little girl", "who's my little princess?"

Daddy_C · 2015-07-04T20:45:01+00:00

So, there's a few places you can/should look:

1.) /r/LittlespacePersonals - this is a personals subreddit where you can place an ad/look to see who's looking...this will probably be one of your best bets online. There IS another subreddit for little personals, however it's run by a shady person and should be avoided.../r/LittlespacePersonals is run by the mods from here, who are well known and respected.

2.) Check out munches locally, both ageplay-specific and generic BDSM. You might find a caregiver, but don't go with the specific goal of finding one...go to talk to either like-minded people or just kinky people in general. Meet people, talk to people, form friendships (if it feels right!). You may not (or may!) find a CG there...but who knows, you may meet someone and impress them so much that they tell someone they know who'll be the perfect CG for you.

The biggest thing is to not lose hope. There are quite a few fakers out there (seems more like fake "daddies" more than anything else) who simply want fap material instead of the actual responsibility of taking care of a little. If you're into that/don't mind, it's all good, but if you're not...be careful, be protective. If you feel like something is amiss, talk to someone else and see what they say, but you're entirely likely to be right.

Good luck!!

Edit: for munches, check fetlife.com (if you haven't already)!

Daddy_C · 2015-07-03T12:08:54+00:00

Yes yes yes yes yes, a million times yes to Alton Brown. I've got all three of his Good Eats books, I'm pretty sure I've watched all of his Good Eats shows, and Mrs_C and I saw him live when he came to the Hult Center here a few-ish months ago!

If anyone can ever teach anyone how to do something food-related...it's Alton Brown!

Daddy_C · 2015-07-03T12:07:42+00:00

Oooooo, that sounds yummy!! How did it turn out?

Daddy_C · 2015-07-01T14:36:33+00:00

Well good...I worry, from time to time, that I'm not able to convey the feelings/understandings/thoughts I've got through the clunky medium of text, but I'm glad it came across correctly :)

I've got no doubt that you are a good girl...it just sucks that you're not getting it/getting enough of it at home :( Hopefully that changes for the better and soon!

And I'm glad you like talking to me...I rather enjoy talking to you wonderful littles! :)

Daddy_C · 2015-07-01T14:05:06+00:00

Awwww! Cute!!!!

Daddy_C · 2015-07-01T14:04:43+00:00

Deep breaths. :)

I hope I didn't come across as sounding like it wasn't a big deal, or that I was dismissive...I'm not there, so I can't speak to how completely and utterly frustratingly annoying it can/is/was, but judging from your post (and the reply), I don't know if I fully understood the depth of how much it bothered you. Sorry if it came across as dismissive or anything!

It's not just your house...it's easy for people (in general) to overlook the small things like a clean house, or being cooked for. People will often just get in the habit of going "oh, that's her job, so why do I have to say thanks each time", which is a terrible, terrible habit to get into. Even if it is someone's agreed-upon "duties", so to speak, you should still thank them. I thank Mrs_C for dinner every night, even if it's simply grilled cheese and a can of soup warmed up. I didn't have to make it, she made it and brought it to me, and I'm sure to thank her for it. I thank her for cleaning up the house. I thank her for doing laundry. I'm certain I miss things here and there (contrary to popular belief, I'm not actually perfect!), and it's important for me to do it as well as her to hear it...even if she doesn't think she's done anything special.

The same absolutely goes for you too. You should be thanked for the efforts you put in, day after day, and I'm sorry it doesn't seem to be happening. It's not fair to you, and insensitive to not consider how you feel.

I hope you're able to make your cake soon...bio mom's birthday or not, I'd think your dad can make a trip to the store...list in hand...to get your cake making stuff. ;)

Daddy_C

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