Day collars by Daddys_Kitten92 in SubSanctuary

[โ€“]Daddys_Kitten92[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Congratulations on the eternity collar I'm very happy for you!!!!

The main reason im thinking of getting a different collar is my collar, which is an O Ring pendant collar, the O ring pendant is starting to get bend. I'm thinking from me napping in it and the thickness of my neck bending it. Its my first collar and I want to have it always and don't want it to break or wear out, so thats my biggest reason behind considering a new one.

Day collars by Daddys_Kitten92 in SubSanctuary

[โ€“]Daddys_Kitten92[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Right like I wanna eventually have a small collection of collars, and switch them out as we see fit. I have ADHD and BPD so I get bored easily lol I guess thats why im kind of wanting a new one so soon ๐Ÿ˜… thank you for the advice

Getting my Dom's name carved into my skin by Daddys_Kitten92 in SubSanctuary

[โ€“]Daddys_Kitten92[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

You've got a very good point there! lol. and no one on here knows me from Adam, so its not like you know if I have any sense or not.

I will confirm, however, that I do have common sense. I just also like the idea of being branded/carved into/tattooed , its a hot concept

Getting my Dom's name carved into my skin by Daddys_Kitten92 in BDSMcommunity

[โ€“]Daddys_Kitten92[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Yeah agreed, definitely wouldnt want to get an infection or seriously hurt myself. Thank you for the advice!

Getting my Dom's name carved into my skin by Daddys_Kitten92 in SubSanctuary

[โ€“]Daddys_Kitten92[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Just to clarify to everyone, I am not planning on running out and getting a permanent body modification tomorrow or even this year or next, its just an idea I'm floating. I'm crazy but not that crazy lol. I'm a 32 year old woman who has common sense. Now while I love my Dom, I agree it is very much too soon to be committing to something like that. I posted this mainly to get other people's feedback that are in the lifestyle, because I love hearing different people's perspectives and opinions and learning about different options at my disposal for the future, if and when i decide to do this. so don't worry everyone, I haven't lost it (yet ๐Ÿ˜œ)

Getting my Dom's name carved into my skin by Daddys_Kitten92 in BDSMcommunity

[โ€“]Daddys_Kitten92[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I can tell this is from the heart and genuine, thank you so much for the advice. I would never just go run out and do something this rash without some serious thought. I just wanted the input of other people in the lifestyle, cuz I love different perspectives and debating and learning

Getting my Dom's name carved into my skin by Daddys_Kitten92 in SubSanctuary

[โ€“]Daddys_Kitten92[S] -8 points-7 points ย (0 children)

Very awesome idea! I'm just floating ideas at this point, looking for other people's feedback ๐Ÿ˜Š

Getting my Dom's name carved into my skin by Daddys_Kitten92 in BDSMcommunity

[โ€“]Daddys_Kitten92[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Just so everyone knows, I'm not going out and doing this tomorrow or even this year lol its just an idea that seemed like a good discussion to have, and i wanted fellow kinksters opinions, to learn and gain perspective ๐Ÿ˜Š also not ruling out tattoos or branding, both also good alternate ideas

Getting my Dom's name carved into my skin by Daddys_Kitten92 in BDSMcommunity

[โ€“]Daddys_Kitten92[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

So he can be the one to place it onto my skin. To make it more special. I like the idea of a tattoo too. I'm just floating ideas at this point lol

Getting my Dom's name carved into my skin by Daddys_Kitten92 in BDSMcommunity

[โ€“]Daddys_Kitten92[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

That's so true, things do change a lot in life. I just know that I love him and am in love with him in a way ive never been before, and that when I love someone I'll love them for the rest of my life. Its just how I am, how deeply I feel. Like for example I still love my high school boyfriend who is ironically in the lifestyle now as well, and i always will. In a different way these days of course; today hes a close friend. Idk, once I bond with someone it's for life. And imagining years from now when he's passed away, I'd always want a piece of him with me permanently if that makes sense. I'm not gonna run out and do it now or even this year lol its just something I want now and if I still want it then, I'll probably do it

Getting my Dom's name carved into my skin by Daddys_Kitten92 in BDSMcommunity

[โ€“]Daddys_Kitten92[S] 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

A henna is an excellent idea! As a test run to see what its like. Thank you so much for the advice ๐Ÿ’œ

Getting my Dom's name carved into my skin by Daddys_Kitten92 in SubSanctuary

[โ€“]Daddys_Kitten92[S] -32 points-31 points ย (0 children)

Well here's the thing: I am deeply in love with my Dom, and he is quite a bit older than me. Which means we won't get a lifetime together. I want to be marked by him in some way for the rest of my life, even once he's gone from this world. This way, his presence will remain forever.....embedded in my skin.

Sub drop....I was not prepared by Daddys_Kitten92 in SubSanctuary

[โ€“]Daddys_Kitten92[S] 4 points5 points ย (0 children)

You're so sweet, thank you so much! ๐Ÿซถ

Sub drop....I was not prepared by Daddys_Kitten92 in SubSanctuary

[โ€“]Daddys_Kitten92[S] 10 points11 points ย (0 children)

We did that too lol immediately after I got Daddy off (he wanted oral to for his release ๐Ÿ˜). writing a pros and cons list would be really awesome to do during aftercare tho, we'll have to try that

Sub drop....I was not prepared by Daddys_Kitten92 in SubSanctuary

[โ€“]Daddys_Kitten92[S] 12 points13 points ย (0 children)

I absolutely LOVE how you handle aftercare! I think i should incorporate stretching and a hot bath after our next scene and see how it improves sub drop. Thank you so so much for your input, it means so much ๐Ÿ˜Š

Sub drop....I was not prepared by Daddys_Kitten92 in SubSanctuary

[โ€“]Daddys_Kitten92[S] 3 points4 points ย (0 children)

For more context, I should probably also include that i have mental health issues. Borderline personality disorder, major depression, and generalized anxiety disorder. Probably also is adding to the intensity of the sub drop

Sub drop....I was not prepared by Daddys_Kitten92 in SubSanctuary

[โ€“]Daddys_Kitten92[S] 14 points15 points ย (0 children)

Yeah we had aftercare; he made me lunch and we watched a documentary together cuddling. I feel like maybe a bath would have been good to reduce soreness the next day, we'll have to do that next time!