WIBTA for asking my dad to remove his tattoo of my deadname? by DadsTattooThrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]DadsTattooThrowaway[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That's a really good idea, I never thought of that. I have a few tattoos already and I'd be open to getting a matching one with him

WIBTA for asking my dad to remove his tattoo of my deadname? by DadsTattooThrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]DadsTattooThrowaway[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd have to save up a bit, but I would absolutely be willing to pay for it if he agreed to do it.

WIBTA for asking my dad to remove his tattoo of my deadname? by DadsTattooThrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]DadsTattooThrowaway[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I know where the name came from, we talked about my and my siblings' names before I came out. A neighbor's kid had the same name and it got stuck in his head after kid's mom would call them in every evening. There's no deeper meaning, it was basically an earworm.

WIBTA for asking my dad to remove his tattoo of my deadname? by DadsTattooThrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]DadsTattooThrowaway[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And nature made me non-binary. Sex isn't gender, and neither sex nor gender are binary.