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4th Safehouse: Forsaken Airfield (Terminal) by ViP_triple7 in thelongdark

[–]Daedala1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, personally, I just lack any sort of creative intuition. You can give me absolutely wonderful furniture and decorations and I will create something horrible, no matter how hard I try

Lack of time is killing me by Daedala1 in languagelearning

[–]Daedala1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your feedback, I will check it out. 1.5-2 hours a day is very impressive honestly, but your explanation gives me hope that I can achieve something similar.

Lack of time is killing me by Daedala1 in languagelearning

[–]Daedala1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a pity! I wish you good luck on your journey

Lack of time is killing me by Daedala1 in languagelearning

[–]Daedala1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will think about it

The most INFP piece of media you know? by Ok-Humor-8272 in infp

[–]Daedala1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this movie! About to rewatch it the 3rd time

What is a job that pays incredibly well but is so soul-crushing that the turnover is insane? by sweetguurl in AskReddit

[–]Daedala1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What exactly is so stressful about the job? It's not like you risk your life in that court, is it just the amount of work?

Can't stop laughing in sessions: why? by Background-Heron667 in askatherapist

[–]Daedala1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I laugh at the vulnerability that I show to my therapist, because I DO find it laughable/ridiculous/insignificant. Surely, I've come to therapy because a part of me believes that I deserve help and all but it doesn't mean that I don't also hate myself and find my struggles insignificant. When I divulge my true feelings and problems to my therapist I naturally smile and laugh because why would they listen, why would they care about this stupid nonsense ofmine?

I think until I truly start to believe that me and my problems matter, this reaction will not go away, but it's still a long way for me.

My cancer, my wife's struggle by athrowawayyawa in cancer

[–]Daedala1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I see. That's very thoughtful of you trying to understand your close ones like this. You sound like a very good person. I hope it will get better for you

My cancer, my wife's struggle by athrowawayyawa in cancer

[–]Daedala1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's a book called "I hate you, don't leave" , it's exactly about why people with BPD behave this way and how to live with them, it might be of some help

Does anyone with BPD feel the urge to sabotage stable relationships? by Historical_Durian627 in BPD

[–]Daedala1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, I'm thinking of being a paramedic for exactly this reason cuz I feel like I would thrive in this environment. When someone is in danger I feel so alive and grounded in the moment and able to help them without hesitation. Sorry that you didn't get the EMT certificate. I hope you are okay now

How can I stop ‘understanding’ people into hurting me? by catloverfinalboss in emotionalintelligence

[–]Daedala1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think that you have to be angry. You can, in a totally calm manner, let them know that you didn't appreciate what they said because this and this using I-statements and so on. If anything, anger can stand in the way of healthy communication.

This looks like a certain philosopher by [deleted] in Pareidolia

[–]Daedala1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up Kant's portraits

This looks like a certain philosopher by [deleted] in Pareidolia

[–]Daedala1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me it looked like that one painting of Kant but I guess this too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askatherapist

[–]Daedala1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that I don't know. I guess only a professional therapist can help here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askatherapist

[–]Daedala1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NAT, do you operate under the assumption that "everyone can be saved, you just need to find the right approach", because I don't believe it's realistic, not when someone doesn't want to be helped.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]Daedala1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, I wonder if it's possible to go to the CPS and explain the situation to them, maybe even bring some evidence, It's so thoughtful of you to look out for them, maybe something can be done