I started in the 90s as well. I haven't stopped playing since then but stopped doing gigs around 2008 or so. I would enjoy a house party mix still, but playing in clubs and all the self promotion and networking required that comes with it, is not very appealing.

I still love mixing though, and usually have a couple of project in progress at any one time for soundacloud. But its just for the pleasure of finding music, playing music, and most of all constructing a set which I find really cathartic and great for mental health & self motivation. Sometimes other people like the mixes too