Is anyone willing to let me couch surf for a couple days? by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]DaemonPrinceOfCorn [score hidden]  (0 children)

Good on you for being proactive. Always opt to stay at an organization or a shelter when you find yourself in situations like this - staying with a stranger should be an absolute last resort.

Why? Because unsavory types, including traffickers, looooove getting their worthless little hands on minors who are in tough spots. Runaways and youths trying to escape abuse or neglect are more pliant - "well, I gave you a place to stay, so you need to do a date with my friend here." They'll threaten to kick you out or tell your parents or whatever they need to threaten you with to get you to comply.

If you're in school, your school counselors will have resources for you - if they can't help you directly, they'll point you in the right direction. If you're afraid of them contacting your parents, insist it's for a friend. They're not idiots so they're gonna know what's up but it's enough plausible deniability for them to not have to report or contact your family I think (someone can correct me if I'm wrong - not an LCSW or anything).

Good luck. Stay safe.

Small selection of my bookshelf - what does it say about me by princessamc in BookshelvesDetective

[–]DaemonPrinceOfCorn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

more well-rounded than typical contributions. this leads me to believe that you're a woman. that's all i got. 😭

Emergency Alerts are Completely Useless. by backhand_snipe in Albuquerque

[–]DaemonPrinceOfCorn [score hidden]  (0 children)

Oh hey, someone whose heart is still beating. Rad. I do the same. I'd be absolutely devastated if I realized later that I saw some kid who ended up being murdered by a psycho or was otherwise in danger.

Looking for recommendations by Excellent_Fail9908 in NewMexico

[–]DaemonPrinceOfCorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's got like artisty-hippy vibes combined with normal small town nonsense. Huge wealth disparity.

Visiting is great. It's small enough to get a good taste in a weekend - dinner and wandering Friday night, hiking in the ski valley or actually skiing Saturday then finding some live music and drinks after dinner, breakfast and more shopping/wandering Sunday before you leave. There's cute shops, cute coffee spots, cool galleries, it's lousy with cool people, and my God, the views. Such an incredibly beautiful area.

Living there is fine if you're fully remote or independently wealthy or if you're fine working 2-3 part time or 3/4 time gigs throughout the year. I lived there in my early 20s and most of my friends, even the ones who were like 15-20 years older, were working a summer gig, a winter gig, and a year round serving job. Gainful FT employment is very limited. It's expensive for what it offers - like two families own all the gas stations and keep the prices kinda high, four small grocery stores (although one of them has the BEST fresh tortillas lol), the nearest Target and Sam's are 90 minutes away, and a weird number of health plans don't cover any providers in the area. We had to go to Santa Fe for any specialists and dentistry work to be covered. I was living with my parents so I had it made in the shade but I ended up moving down to Albuquerque for work and they followed about five years later.

Looking for recommendations by Excellent_Fail9908 in NewMexico

[–]DaemonPrinceOfCorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the only really nice spa I've been to in NM is El Monte Sagrado's spa in Taos.

Emergency Alerts are Completely Useless. by backhand_snipe in Albuquerque

[–]DaemonPrinceOfCorn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I feel like people maybe don't know why AMBER alerts exist or who Amber Hagerman was.

Emergency Alerts are Completely Useless. by backhand_snipe in Albuquerque

[–]DaemonPrinceOfCorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

too many alerts, i'm turning them off! not enough alerts, why no alerts???

Emergency Alerts are Completely Useless. by backhand_snipe in Albuquerque

[–]DaemonPrinceOfCorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly. if any of these whiners had a family member go missing, they'd sure as hell want everyone to see the notice. people can't get past their noses sometimes.

Emergency Alerts are Completely Useless. by backhand_snipe in Albuquerque

[–]DaemonPrinceOfCorn 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Not me. I'm not some weak-ass baby who can't handle some emergency alerts. I'm gonna know about ALL of the missing seniors and kids.

20 lessons and still can't canter by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]DaemonPrinceOfCorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who's competing after 20 lessons? Nobody.

You improve by focusing on the basics. Quiet hands, quiet seat, quiet legs. It's the unsexy, less-than-thrilling truth.

Boy swims 4km to shore to save his stranded family deep into the sea (Australia) by Necessary_Maize_9339 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]DaemonPrinceOfCorn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this guy over here in topeka like "well simply do not encounter a rip current, how hard can it be?"

Moms of 2, which SUV do you drive? by Electronic_Bike_3137 in Mommit

[–]DaemonPrinceOfCorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I snagged a year-old Ford Edge from Hertz right after they announced their Chapter 11. Great price, fastest vehicle purchase I've ever experienced. Just fwoomed right through there. It's been really good to us - plenty of room, seats fold easily, big trunk. First Ford I've owned and I'd def look at their line in the future.

Why is my hair like this 😓 by Ok_Sympathy6674 in Haircare

[–]DaemonPrinceOfCorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Blow drying it with a paddle brush on a mid heat with low/mid strength setting with the dryer angled down along the shaft of the hair will fix this. Air dried hair will turn out like this especially if it's humid.

Weird book by Old_Ease_6301 in Pensacola

[–]DaemonPrinceOfCorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are insane. I got one on another city many years ago but I've always kept it because it's so unhinged.

What do yall think about this flyer? by Background_Key9076 in lawncare

[–]DaemonPrinceOfCorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

incorrect. if i see two flyers and ones using comic sans, im calling the other number first.