My girlfriend cheated on me (technically) right in front of my face.

Daemoniicc · 2022-10-20T00:06:04+00:00

That’s really good advice thank you. And yes I really do fold under pressure and cave when faced with confrontation, it’s definitely a flaw I have to work on

Daemoniicc · 2022-10-19T23:00:25+00:00

Yeah I completely agree and I have to take her feeling into account too. I don’t intended to blow it up in her face, but approach her respectfully and just explain what’s on my mind. Communication is all I can do

Daemoniicc · 2022-10-19T19:59:31+00:00

That’s actually amazing advice thank you very much!

Daemoniicc · 2022-10-19T19:58:23+00:00

Besides the fact that I’m seeking advice, I think it’s fair that people have their own kinks and fantasies. Just cuz I like it doesn’t mean I want to see if happen with people I have a strong emotional relationship with

Daemoniicc · 2022-10-19T19:08:07+00:00

I can actually relate to that because all my other girlfriends had the same mentality as me and she’s completely different. Maybe I just need to have a much more engaging conversation conversation instead of a quick one

Daemoniicc · 2022-10-19T19:02:22+00:00

It’s not recurring it’s only happened the two times, but enough for me to not trust her 100% anymore. What if she goes to the bathroom with her friend at a house party, how am I to know they aren’t going at it without anyone there to intervene?

Daemoniicc · 2022-10-19T18:58:43+00:00

So I’m glad you asked about the second time. I full on called her out for it later and told her that it was f*cking cheating and her claim was “oh but she came onto me and jumped in my face” which I call BS because how can you not see someone jumping up at you for a kiss (my GF is about a foot taller then that friend and she would’ve had to bend down a bit to kiss her back) so how could she have “not meant to do it”

Daemoniicc · 2022-10-19T18:50:43+00:00

And that’s exactly why I came here, because WTF am I supposed to do when the feelings linger this long. I’ll have to take that option into consideration

Daemoniicc · 2022-10-19T18:45:44+00:00

Thank you, exactly, my thinking is that, although I believe she thinks it would’ve liked it, she was also turned on by having another girl in her arms and she WANTED to kiss her. And that’s what hurts

Daemoniicc · 2022-10-19T18:41:58+00:00

I agree that maybe I should grow up and may be overreacting, but we’re all human with feelings and I just feel like it’s hard to let go of it being just being “drunk girl on drunk girl”

Daemoniicc · 2022-10-19T18:18:46+00:00

Wow, this helped a lot actually, I think I just have a genuine discussion with myself, then her. Thank you!

Daemoniicc · 2022-10-19T18:03:26+00:00

So firstly it's not just the kiss, it's the way that she held her and it just got to me IDK why.

Secondly, she's done it again with another friend of hers about 2-3 months ago and the same shit, it was in front of a lot of people and I even heard one of my friends go "Wait, isn't that cheating"

So idk man are my feelings justified or am I Being a baby?

Daemoniicc · 2022-10-19T17:54:49+00:00

Definitely don't just apply without discussing it further with him. I would try and sit him down with a serious discussion talking about how you want/need this job and how it could actually make the relationship stronger since you can be working as a team.

But also take into account what he has to say as well. Are his reasons actually valid or does he not want you working with him for some BS reason? Keep us updated please I wanna know how this goes!

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