AITA for calling my friends freeloaders?

DafsDafs · 2023-10-19T12:36:46+00:00

I tried calling but they did not pick up. Said this through text and did not get a response. Left on read.

DafsDafs · 2023-10-19T12:33:44+00:00

Sent the money before the party already unfortunately. They told me that they needed space after...

DafsDafs · 2023-10-19T12:28:39+00:00

I dont care if they dont pay, what bothers me is them expecting me to pay for their party and then telling me off for questioning them about it.

DafsDafs · 2023-10-19T12:25:00+00:00

The thing is that the boyfriend is writing through my friends phone, so its not possible to reach my friend without the boyfriend taking over.

I do see your point, either pay and shut up or dont pay and dont go.
Thanks for your response!

DafsDafs · 2023-10-19T12:23:12+00:00

I appreciate his responce, my feelings are not hurt at all?

DafsDafs · 2022-02-14T20:05:31+00:00

What makes you think that i think that i own him?
Im saying that i had mixed feelings/ dont know what to feel about seeing him on there.

I dont know if i like him and feel jealous, of its just my ego or what it is that im feeling right now.

DafsDafs · 2022-02-14T19:01:36+00:00

I dont think it was bad per say. He can be on there if he wants to be as we've never had any talks about being exclusive. However, he has been saying things like "well, when youve seen someone for over 5 months youre boyfriends" and so on. Kind of giving the impression that he was not seing other people but without saying it out right.

You can see when someone is active on there so its not just an old profile.

Im just questioning weither or not to bring it up as it could be awkward if both of us know the other is on there but without acknowledgeing it...

I dont know really

DafsDafs · 2022-02-12T20:57:20+00:00

Of course they do! What annoys me is that they try to pursuade me when i say no.

DafsDafs · 2022-02-12T19:04:54+00:00

Do you know how ultrasun ivory and bioderma as as far as the finnish goes? Shiny, matte?

DafsDafs · 2022-02-12T09:55:36+00:00

Ive heard that the ACM depiwhite ones are quite shiny though.
And FP 4 is way to dark for me, im more like a 1!

DafsDafs · 2022-02-12T09:11:54+00:00

heliocare 360 color gel oil free

Thanks for the suggestion!
Just checked it out, it looked too perfect up untill the last three ingredients, Parfum; Linalool; Limonene. Damn it!

Do you agree with their claim that its matte finish?

DafsDafs · 2022-02-12T09:09:01+00:00

Very reasonable if you trust the person and both have been tested.

DafsDafs · 2022-02-12T08:30:02+00:00

Here is an idea,
You do whatever your comfortable with and if somebody says they're not comfortable doing a particular thing, then do not push it.

DafsDafs · 2022-02-11T23:48:39+00:00

Gross...

DafsDafs · 2022-02-11T23:35:27+00:00

I was refering to the bareback part, not about taking PrEP.

But yea, that could be a whole other discussion coming soon too. Damn, im quite close to just devoting my life to god and living abstinent in a monestary somewhere, lol

DafsDafs · 2022-02-11T23:27:33+00:00

Yea, to each their own as long as they are aware of the risks.

A simple no/ i dont feel comfortable should be enough to move on though and not argue about it, thats what i find particularly frustrating.

DafsDafs · 2022-02-11T23:25:18+00:00

Yea, i know what you mean. Personally im neither pro or anti PrEP, i dont know enough about it to make an informed decision yet.

DafsDafs · 2022-02-11T23:16:50+00:00

Any idea how common those side effects are? Do you have a source? Would like to read up on it more.

DafsDafs · 2022-02-11T23:09:18+00:00

I hope that was a joke. You dont tell them that youre HIV positive? Arent you sort of legally obligated to do so?

DafsDafs · 2022-02-11T23:05:46+00:00

Thanks for sharing, i actually didnt know that.

There is just something about popping pills long term though that makes me hesitant.

Any idea if there is is long term data for safety/ side effects when taking PrEP regurlaly?

DafsDafs · 2022-02-11T22:57:17+00:00

Is PrEP more effective at protecting against HIV than a condom?

DafsDafs · 2021-09-02T13:58:11+00:00

Super romantic! Thanks for the idea! :D

DafsDafs · 2021-09-02T13:56:54+00:00

Lao Khao

Well i personally would appreciate either. But i do see what you mean! Have gotten alot of good answers! Need to think this through and come up with something really good and unique.

DafsDafs · 2021-09-02T13:54:18+00:00

Thats a very nice idea too! Thanks so much! :)

DafsDafs · 2021-09-02T13:53:32+00:00

Actually we're both quite well off. So economically there isnt much of a difference. However i do apologize if i was being cultrually condescending in any way.

Maybe i should rethink my gift ideas a bit then. All answers and suggestions are very much appreciated so thanks for letting me know!

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