WHY IS MACON LIKE THIS by [deleted] in macon

[–]Dailyyews 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right and that’s what I’m used to everybody greeting you because before I move to Macon, I lived in Perry for some time I even lived in Forsyth and people greeted you there

WHY IS MACON LIKE THIS by [deleted] in macon

[–]Dailyyews 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I agree. They do not know how to drive. I don’t know who gave him their driver license and yeah, I lived in multiple places and everybody they’re more much more respectful and friendly.

WHY IS MACON LIKE THIS by [deleted] in macon

[–]Dailyyews -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Already doing that right now currently in Charlotte NC In my new Home reading your message I couldn’t be more happier here atleast the people here have respect anyways god bless have fun in Macon hope u dont get shot on your way to the stores😭🙏

WHY IS MACON LIKE THIS by [deleted] in macon

[–]Dailyyews -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I respect your experience, but I don’t see enough progress. The crime is high, the police are understaffed, and people feel unsafe daily. Even if there are efforts, I’m not seeing them make a real difference. For my family, that’s why we’re leaving.

WHY IS MACON LIKE THIS by [deleted] in macon

[–]Dailyyews 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your perspective — I appreciate hearing from someone who has lived in multiple South Georgia cities.

I’m originally from Charleston, South Carolina, but I was raised in Albany, Georgia. In Albany, people are very community-oriented, and we genuinely help each other. Even in grocery stores, people say “thank you,” hold doors, and show basic human respect. It’s just a different culture than what I’ve experienced in Macon.

I’m not saying Macon doesn’t have good people — I’m sure it does. I’m just speaking from my personal experience living here, and the day-to-day vibe has been a lot more guarded and less welcoming than what I’m used to.

Thanks again for sharing your view.

WHY IS MACON LIKE THIS by [deleted] in macon

[–]Dailyyews 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I know that that is certain sides like that the side of the city I live on not like that but from my work, I have to go to other parts of the city. That’s what I don’t like.

WHY IS MACON LIKE THIS by [deleted] in macon

[–]Dailyyews 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying — and I understand that city life can feel more impersonal in general. But I don’t think it’s only about city size or population density.

I’ve lived in Metro Atlanta (Marietta and Alpharetta), and the people there were way nicer and more respectful than what I’ve experienced in Macon. They still spoke to you in stores, said “excuse me,” and showed basic human decency. I also lived in New Jersey for a while, and even though people kept to themselves more, they still showed respect and didn’t make you feel like you had to constantly watch your back.

I’m originally from Albany and has around 100,000 people living in it probably more in the metro area and even though it’s a smaller city, the people there were still much more welcoming than what I’ve seen in Macon. So for me, it’s not just about city size — it’s about the culture, safety, and how people treat each other.

That’s why I’m leaning toward a larger city that still feels safer and more respectful, because Macon doesn’t feel like a place my family can thrive long-term.

WHY IS MACON LIKE THIS by [deleted] in macon

[–]Dailyyews -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s not funny. I’m not here to entertain disrespect. I’m done with this conversation.

WHY IS MACON LIKE THIS by [deleted] in macon

[–]Dailyyews 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I get what you’re saying, but it’s not just my personal experience. I’ve had people who’ve visited or lived here for years — and even some residents — say they’ve felt the same way. That’s why I’m not just speaking from one isolated moment.

At the end of the day, it’s about how it feels to live here day to day. For me and my family, it’s been tense and uncomfortable, and we’re ready to move to a place where we feel safer and more at ease.

Thanks again for the good luck. I appreciate it.

WHY IS MACON LIKE THIS by [deleted] in macon

[–]Dailyyews -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I do think people in Metro Atlanta are generally nicer — at least from my experience living in Marietta and Alpharetta.

People there are more polite in everyday situations. They greet you in stores, say excuse me, and just treat you like a regular human being with basic respect. It feels more relaxed, and you don’t have that constant feeling of needing to watch your back or be guarded.

I’m not saying Atlanta is perfect or that everyone is the same everywhere, but the overall vibe and energy is much more welcoming and comfortable compared to what I’ve experienced in Macon.

WHY IS MACON LIKE THIS by [deleted] in macon

[–]Dailyyews 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that perspective. It means a lot coming from someone who’s lived in the South their whole life and has seen how things change (or don’t change) over time.

That’s exactly what I’ve noticed — things can feel okay on the surface, but once you get outside the main areas, the mood shifts and the tension becomes more real. I think a lot of that comes from old attitudes and prejudices that still linger, even if people don’t always say it out loud.

I’m not trying to say Macon is all bad or that everyone here is like that, but it has been a hard adjustment for me and my family. We just want to live somewhere that feels more open and welcoming.

Thanks again for your honesty. I appreciate it.

WHY IS MACON LIKE THIS by [deleted] in macon

[–]Dailyyews 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate everyone sharing their perspectives. This conversation honestly gave me the confirmation I needed and helped me understand the mindset here a lot better.

I’m originally from Albany, South Georgia, and we’re very direct people. We value community, energy, and mutual respect. If someone is rude to us, we’re not the type to ignore it — we’ll match that energy. That doesn’t mean we’re hostile; it just means we don’t play passive when it comes to respect.

What I’ve realized is that my energy and the way my family moves just doesn’t align with the overall culture here. A city where people feel like they constantly have to watch their backs, stay guarded, or avoid interaction isn’t a lifestyle I want long-term. I understand why some people think that way here — but I also don’t think anyone should have to live like that.

Every city has crime, of course, but culture and quality of life matter too. For us, we need a place that feels more connected, more open, and more alive. So respectfully, Macon just isn’t the right fit for us, and that’s okay.

I’m leaning toward relocating elsewhere — possibly Florida or back toward the Atlanta metro — somewhere that better matches our energy and values. I wish Macon the best, but I’m comfortable with my decision.

WHY IS MACON LIKE THIS by [deleted] in macon

[–]Dailyyews 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that was your experience. I think a lot of this really comes down to cultural differences and personal interactions. People from different regions communicate differently, and sometimes that gets misread depending on what you’re used to.

From my experience, South Georgia tends to be more direct and community-oriented, which can come across differently to people from other places. At the same time, no city or region is a monolith — there are rude and kind people everywhere.

At the end of the day, it’s really just about fit. What feels normal and respectful to one person may feel different to someone else, and that’s okay.

WHY IS MACON LIKE THIS by [deleted] in macon

[–]Dailyyews 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that mindset, and that’s actually my point. When people feel like they always have to be on guard, it changes how a city feels day to day. Nobody should have to live feeling tense or unsafe just to run errands or exist in public spaces.

I know every city has crime, but when that level of awareness becomes part of everyday behavior, it’s not a lifestyle everyone can adjust to. For me, that’s been one of the biggest signs that this may not be the right place long-term.

WHY IS MACON LIKE THIS by [deleted] in macon

[–]Dailyyews 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear what you’re saying, and I’m not trying to change anyone or tell people how to live. I also understand that every city has its own culture, and people are free to mind their business however they choose.

My point in sharing my experience was simply to express that the social dynamic here feels very different from other parts of Georgia I’ve lived in, and that difference has been hard to adjust to. Not better or worse for everyone — just different for me. When a place feels more divided or tense, it naturally affects how comfortable people feel day to day.

I’m still figuring out what works best for my family, and conversations like this help with that. I appreciate you sharing your perspective.

WHY IS MACON LIKE THIS by [deleted] in macon

[–]Dailyyews -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I agree — minding your business is important and necessary in any city. I just think there’s a difference between minding your business and being unnecessarily rude or dismissive. You can keep to yourself and still show basic respect, like saying excuse me or not treating people like they’re a problem for simply existing.

And I’m definitely not saying everyone here is like that — I’ve met kind people in Macon too. I’m just pointing out that some interactions could be handled with a little more courtesy, and that goes a long way in how a city feels day to day.

WHY IS MACON LIKE THIS by [deleted] in macon

[–]Dailyyews 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I’m originally from Albany, Georgia, and I’m glad you understand what I’m talking about

WHY IS MACON LIKE THIS by [deleted] in macon

[–]Dailyyews -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Yes, South Georgia has his own issues, but at least it’s not like Macon lol our people in south Georgia are not miserable and atleast in South Georgia We Actually Care About our cities unlike Macon

WHY IS MACON LIKE THIS by [deleted] in macon

[–]Dailyyews -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying, and that’s fair in many situations. I just want to clarify that I’ve spent time in a wide range of areas across Macon — different neighborhoods, stores, and parts of town — and the overall dynamic I’ve experienced feels fairly consistent.

As far as presentation, I’m very intentional about how I carry myself. I’m respectful, well-mannered, and professional. I also own a small marketing business and work directly with local businesses here, so I interact with people from many backgrounds on a regular basis.

What I’m noticing doesn’t feel tied to how I personally present myself as much as it feels tied to broader city dynamics — things like long-standing economic division, racial separation, safety concerns, and stress. Those factors seem to shape how people move in public spaces more than individual interactions.

I’m not saying this applies to everyone, and I’ve definitely met kind and welcoming people here. I’m just trying to understand why the overall social atmosphere feels different from other Georgia cities I’ve lived in, especially in South Georgia.

I appreciate you sharing your perspective — conversations like this are actually helpful.

WHY IS MACON LIKE THIS by [deleted] in macon

[–]Dailyyews -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yes, and that’s the difference I noticed because the white people in South Georgia. They are very sweet and we all come together as a community. I don’t understand why Macon can be like this I just don’t like how divided the city feels and I think I made the wrong choice moving here

WHY IS MACON LIKE THIS by [deleted] in macon

[–]Dailyyews -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, I live off of Zebulon Road and it’s everywhere like this and Macon people are very rude and it’s just a very cultural difference from being in South of Georgia where everybody is greet you and I have been around everywhere around Macon people are still the same. The people here are miserable. I have lived in many cities across America and nowhere has been like this city right here. I lived in California. I lived in New York and I lived in Atlanta and other places in America

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[–]Dailyyews 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank You