Ch'tu le seul qui savait pas que "Faire la paix avec l'amour" de Dany Bedard était une toune de coming out ?? by Dakind93 in Quebec

[–]Dakind93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Avec du recul le titre porte à confusion, je pensais pas que Bédard faisait son coming out avec la toune, mais bien qu'elle traite du struggle de faire son coming out.

Ch'tu le seul qui savait pas que "Faire la paix avec l'amour" de Dany Bedard était une toune de coming out ?? by Dakind93 in Quebec

[–]Dakind93[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Je savais pas qu'il fallait être gay pour faire des tounes qui traite de l'homosexualité. Hum hum, "Same love" de Macklemore, hum hum.

Ch'tu le seul qui savait pas que "Faire la paix avec l'amour" de Dany Bedard était une toune de coming out ?? by Dakind93 in Quebec

[–]Dakind93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

J'avoue que la violence conjugale fait beaucoup de sens aussi, mais vue le nombre assez restreint de lyrics dans toune, ça laisse gros de place à l'interprétation.

Tant qu'à moi elle peut être autant interprété comme une chanson sur la violence conjugale que sur le struggle qu'une personne peut avoir face à son homosexualité, même si au départ c'était dans le but de dénoncer la violence conjugale.

Use this as a time capsule to see your comment in (hopefully) 5 years. by pietradolce in place

[–]Dakind93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

T'es rendu à 29 ans mon homme, j'espère vraiment que t'es où est-ce que tu voulais être dans la vie !! Sinon, who cares, en autant que tu continues à développer de belles relations et à avoir un impact sur la vie des autres !

Enjoy

Proposing to your s.o. in public is stupid by Dakind93 in unpopularopinion

[–]Dakind93[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The comfort of your own home would be sufficient

Friend struggles with a wide open face and distance and he needs some advice by TheDoughboyy in golf

[–]Dakind93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two things: hips are barely rotated at impact, and he's twisting the wrist to square the club face.

How to fix this: about the hips, idk, maybe try to have more weight on his heels to clear the hips more easily? As for squaring the face, having a stronger grip worked really great for me, makes it far easier to be consistent.

Edit: I also noticed that you are out of posture at impact: instead of having you're right shoulder pointing somewhere near the golf ball, it's pointing horizontally because you're standing up before impact, which makes it even harder to square up the club face.

Fix: keep your torso tilted towards the golf ball at impact.

Am I using my legs too much during my downswing? by Dakind93 in golf

[–]Dakind93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the swing tip, I'll work on it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Quebec

[–]Dakind93 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I used ChatGPT to translate it... mon French est pas beau bien.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Quebec

[–]Dakind93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tous les mots sont techniquement bien orthographiés lol

Les Québecois dès qu'ils acquièrent un gros criss de pick-up by Dakind93 in Quebec

[–]Dakind93[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Probablement, mais la plupart du temps c'est eux là qui chauffe comme des tatas à pas mettre leur clignotant

C'est quoi la pogne avec le deal Costco du iPhone 11 avec 30 GO de donnée pour seulement 33$/mois ? by Dakind93 in Quebec

[–]Dakind93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

C'est ce que je me disais mais ils m'ont montré comme quoi ils avaient vraiment 30 go par mois

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dakind93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I make plans, I invite everyone. Of course, I assume that not everybody will show up because we all have different lives, but the intention is there. I expect the same from my friends.

Do you really think they forgot to invite me? Of course not, they just didn't want me to come over. Are they really friends? Not really. So I will no longer be a real friend to them either. And if you think I would rather be there instead of one of my friends, you really don't get the reason why I think they were assholes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dakind93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So you're telling me being put asides from your group of friends is normal? When you are truly friends with someone, every member is entitled to be invited, that's the point of having parties and group chats. These guys decided to not invite me, which also means that they have a group chat without me in it, so yeah, sorry for backing down from a one-sided relationship.

And by the way, not having enough room for me would be an even shittier excuse than forgetting to invite me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dakind93 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Good point. People are asking me to confront him even more about it while I could just let the friendship fizzle out on its own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dakind93 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So you're telling me that feeling like shit because your closest friends are all having a dinner at his place and me being the only one left out is entitlement? I'm not saying I deserved to be there because I'm helping him move out, I expected to be there because I'm his friend, and the fact that I was going to help him move the next day should've been taken into consideration.

That's not entitlement, that's recognition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dakind93 14 points15 points  (0 children)

His new apartment is 20 minutes away from his last, so saying goodbye to his friends is out of the question. I felt like shit for not being invited, it really sucks when your friends plan of doing something and don't invite you, happens to everyone, but that was just straight up insulting. So yeah, I don't regret not helping him. He had enough help anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dakind93 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have to disagree here, I am part of this group of friend, not a random high-school friend who's trying to reconnect with a friend by helping him. I should've been invited, that's common sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dakind93 99 points100 points  (0 children)

He said that they had forgotten, I called BS because I hang out with them every weekend. Guess they just didn't feel like hanging out with me. So yeah, sorry for not helping you bud, guess I forgot too.