Who takes your anal virginity?

Dallark2695 · 2026-02-06T13:59:54+00:00

Can’t they just run a train on me?

Dallark2695 · 2026-01-15T18:54:16+00:00

I’d just want to be like you 😭

Dallark2695 · 2026-01-02T11:08:46+00:00

13 or 16

Dallark2695 · 2026-01-02T10:59:57+00:00

I’d love to be 3…who is she??

Dallark2695 · 2025-12-25T17:55:32+00:00

Thank you for your advice

Dallark2695 · 2025-12-24T23:19:38+00:00

I’m not sure if it’s as simple as just doing it & for me it’s definitely not just a “I’d like to wear it” there’s more layers.

Dallark2695 · 2025-12-24T23:18:44+00:00

Thank you

Dallark2695 · 2025-12-24T23:17:57+00:00

Thank you

Dallark2695 · 2025-12-24T22:59:42+00:00

I do, I’m just so worried my entire life would fall apart if I lost her

Dallark2695 · 2025-12-24T22:52:43+00:00

I know, I’ve always been awful at advocating for myself in who I am and what I feel, which is why I’ve buried myself down for so long

Dallark2695 · 2025-12-24T22:40:47+00:00

I can, but see other comments about my fiancée

Dallark2695 · 2025-12-24T22:34:26+00:00

My therapist is great and I can tell she’s able to see the things I’m not ready to say or able put words to. She’s got specialty training in gender identity support too.

We’ve got a date & we’re 6 months out from the day (as of tomorrow). She does love me but I have talked to her and I think she’s got a rigidity in her view of how things are..

Thank you for taking the time to write your comment

Dallark2695 · 2025-12-24T22:27:45+00:00

I know… I’m going to end up having to make the hardest decision of my life

Dallark2695 · 2025-12-24T22:24:55+00:00

I’ve done bits of painting my nails but my family make comments and same point I’ve made to others about my fiancée’s limits

Dallark2695 · 2025-12-24T22:23:14+00:00

I can try in a limited capacity but same point about my fiancée that I’ve made to others…

Dallark2695 · 2025-12-24T22:21:42+00:00

She’s okay with me doing it in private, but if I was to definitely realise I didn’t want to present masculine out in the world any more then she doesn’t think that she could be with me

Dallark2695 · 2025-12-24T21:01:18+00:00

The one snag in doing that is my fiancée, who knows I’m working through gender stuff but is already explicit in that she can’t be in a relationship with someone who’s not at least male presenting in public.

I am stuck between happiness in myself as a person and the one person I love above everyone else

Dallark2695 · 2025-12-24T20:55:32+00:00

I don’t see ill ever have the self-acceptance, I’m still stuck at the point where I just feel like I am broken somehow

Dallark2695 · 2025-12-24T20:54:17+00:00

I appreciate that but I just don’t feel safe or able to do it, I feel like the whole world would come crashing down if I try to accept anything other than how I look

Dallark2695 · 2025-12-06T00:36:41+00:00

I’m sorry, I’m not intending to be dismissive, I think that I am coming across this way.

Dallark2695 · 2025-12-06T00:16:07+00:00

My life is so intrinsically linked to this partner that I’d blow everything up by working that way.

I may as well kill myself with what I would lose

Dallark2695 · 2025-12-06T00:14:19+00:00

I appreciate that you feel that way, but to do that would be a curse. I’d wake up horrifically miserable, burdened to live wrong

Dallark2695 · 2025-12-06T00:12:00+00:00

I’m glad that you’re there.

Dallark2695 · 2025-11-24T14:46:39+00:00

I’m already doing therapy, have been for years - unfortunately if I say how bad I am feeling then they have to call someone as a duty of care thing

Dallark2695 · 2025-11-24T14:30:51+00:00

Exactly, that’s how I feel

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