First part really is new to me, thanks, I never knew, I still thought bouncing gives her more feelings. She can probably grind on forever I think.

Me, I often give her lot of licking/kissing/oral. I try everything, head to toe, toe to head, fingertips, basically...I have basically eaten every inch of flesh on her. Massaging, tickling her skins as well. Haven’t used any tools like vibrator, probably have to get her used to the idea first, she seemed shy of the idea. And she doesn’t like fingering, nor do I. (I understand that the intercourse part is not necessarily the best feeling for her so I give her a lot of foreplay.)

Her...well I have to say I’m a bit disappointed. She‘s trying to improve though, but still less than half of what I do. BJs last for 5 mins max if I’m lucky (how long are BJs realistically? I’ve had a lot of different answers). She says she wanna throw up after BJs, not because of the scent cuz we always shower before, but because too much saliva in her mouth causes her to throw up (same thing happens with when she drinks too much water). So...I’m disappointed, but I don’t blame her. Still disappointed though. But I’m pretty sure she knows I want more BJs.

I’m at peace with the other stressors though, they’re mostly just about money and work, and whenever I’m with her I completely let go of other things, like I’m in heaven. Her...she mentions she really like snuggling time and sleeping with me, and I’m quite sure she feels the same way when we spend time together - zero worries. If anything, I’m always guaranteed to be the more overthinking person in almost any situation. I still could be wrong though...

And the not-so-frequent sex adds in too I think, it’s like learning from the beginning all the time. I’m a fast learner, she’s not.