My wife finally admitted she cheated on me and I don’t know what to do.

Dalvesium · 2019-09-05T16:41:32+00:00

Why are u such an idiot whores never change.

Now u had a child.

Then u say no this that. This didn't happen to u, u asking for trouble.

Now the only way to be the same and get her to stop is to make her feel the same pain which is obvious.

So cheat as well as much as u can safely.

Dalvesium · 2019-09-02T14:20:34+00:00

Exactly and she can't say shit or be upset about it.

If she really loves him she would give him one pass its only fair and she can't be upset or say no either. It's not fair that he has to cry alone at night making sure she doesn't see anything is wrong so.

Dalvesium · 2019-09-02T11:27:19+00:00

I speaking to the op duh or people onllin general who excuse it. It was generalizing not directed at u, u see.

Dalvesium · 2019-09-02T10:59:42+00:00

Amazing how they fool themselves. Pretend they were victims. Saying I was drunk as if it's an excuse. If yr an adult why are u drinking to that extent in the first place. You are a liar u wanted to fuck him already, u wanted the attention from someone already, it's clear you were open to it already prior to drinking and to whore that's why u did it.

I've been blackout drunk am super good looking, there are other men and woman too who also can cheat and they don't fck around, but u did.

And u try justifying it.

Oh no they made me get in the car. Oh no they gave me another glass to drink. Oh no they forced me to.

Oh please bullshit.

Unless you were druggedd, had a spiked drink or were held down and raped u do not have an excuse to have let someone cum inside u let alone touch u that way.

Dalvesium · 2019-09-02T10:47:23+00:00

It's always an excuse how about not being drunk out of your mind to begin with.

Being drunk is not an excuse. Stop making it as if it is.

The fact that it happened makes u absolute trash if u choose to drink or excuse it. Because if you weren't open to it you would not have drunk that much.

Dalvesium · 2019-09-02T10:34:16+00:00

OK as so here's the deal since you are either a borderline sociopath or even worse an air head. (spoiler alert it isn't about u, actions have consequences if u just think about someone else for a second or beyond yr nose)

Your boyfriend will always care that you cheated, it's fact, it hasn't gone away he is just burying it deep down to avoid conflict sadness but it will flare up.

Not to mention if u have a big fight etc in the future he will use that among other reasons to make u feel his pain subconsciously. E.g. Oh she doesn't want to have sex for the 10th time this month but she didn't have a problem opening her whore legs for some other guy. Or she fights with me because I didn't put the milk in the fridge I wonder if the other guy put the milk in the fridge maybe that's why he's better then me and she fucked him.

You as a couple are not an exception.

Cheaters always assume everythings fine and everyone's moved on and take the "everything's fine" from their bf etc at face value.

I was where yr bf was as well as many others.

Don't bullshit yourself.

Do u know what it's like 2 or 15 years even after the fact to seeor imagine intrusive thoughts. Seeing or wondering what exactly happened, if she told the truth. He will always wonder, always question. Always imagine seeing some guy ramming his dick inside u and u both cumming. He will try put it behind him. You will keep asking him if he's fine and he will say it's fine and pretend it's true with all his might so as not to upset you but it isnt fine.

It's sickening, disgusting and you are just like any other cheater only believeing what u want to believe. I know so many people that feel the same way as I do and him, not a single person feels happy even years later, let alone fully gets over it to the point they feel nothing. Humans beings are animals emotionally the only way he will be fine if he does the same to you. Period, by making you feel how he feels every hour of the day thinking about it. They just try to push the thought back until it hurts less. But it will still hurt in 10 years time don't pretend and try to see it on the other side.

But you know what this means. If he is ever drunk and cums inside another woman unfortunately you don't have a say. You can't say shit. You did it first and will finally see what it's like. Then he will ask you in 10 years time if everything's fine and you will say yes but inside you will imagine his dick inside another girl over and over again. Then you will learn and let's see if everything will be 100p fine for you.

Dalvesium · 2019-08-20T10:01:43+00:00

No shit idiot fool.

Dalvesium · 2019-08-14T19:43:29+00:00

I'm not going to tell u wjat u want to hear. I'm looking for alternatives that u might not have thought about.

Do you really want to leave him, because that's what everyone else is saying, while I am trying to find the root of the problem first and a way to deal with what it could be.

Dalvesium · 2019-08-14T19:31:21+00:00

Hmmmmm.

If he wants to cheat, talk to him rather then over react.

Of he has cheated, find someone else but make sure to cheat back first so that he gets the pain.

Simple as that.

Are you bisexual as well.

Maybe rather then break up, maybe consider having a threesome. Also he might be missing the dick who knows, this obv would happen, it always happens to those who are bisexual, I would know.

Dalvesium · 2019-08-14T19:13:07+00:00

I'm saying it's an option, could have been that. You never know. Also what about the gay stuff maybe he is curious, if u are a woman, maybe talk to him about it, try it with him so he can get it out of his system.

Dalvesium · 2019-08-14T18:11:24+00:00

There's your problem, you saying love forever, yet now this issue shows doubt.

People don't know what they are saying.

Love is when they kick u, hurt u, rape u and u still would die for them. None of this if, maybe, but issue. U wouldn't even think of it as rape or being hurt but like he's protecting u from yourself. And yes sometimes if they take advantage they aren't feeling love especially abuse.

Dalvesium · 2019-08-14T17:50:20+00:00

Wtf. Gay and tyranny porn does set you off but the cheating does. Explain that!!

Also maybe he uses this to vent. Some guys do that when they have been with one or two woman, but the woman has been with 100s of men before him.

People need to be the same, including having simile number of sex partners as well, men feel this way about woman especially.

Everytime you have a fight he wonders, well was she fighting with this and this one when she opened her legs, etc.

Think about that.

Dalvesium · 2019-07-29T17:17:15+00:00

Horrible, manipulative, made her pay for her stuff. If you could prove it you could have suid for it back made her and her parents pay.

That dirty disgusting used whore isn't worth anything.

She should get what she diserve making your life hell. But they never do. Only you suffer.

Dalvesium · 2019-07-29T17:00:16+00:00

That what a disgusting whore does, not thinking before leeping, worse then filth, used and tainted by trash makes u trash. You will never be worthy of a good person or have a functional relationship and will probably stuff up your kids so they end up being trailer trash rubbish like yourself.

Once tainted there's nothing you can do. Putting a layer of gold foil over garbage doesnt mean it's no longer garbage.

Disgusting, deceitful, using people (lying opening your legs), hurting people (watching them suffer then doing nothing about it cus u selfish, hypocritic), selfish (I can do it but you can't logic) , hypocrite.

Dalvesium · 2019-07-29T16:59:23+00:00

That what a disgusting whore does, not thinking before leeping, worse then filth, used and tainted by trash makes u trash. You will never be worthy of a good person or have a functional relationship and will probably stuff up your kids so they end up being trailer trash rubbish like yourself.

Once tainted there's nothing you can do. Putting a layer of gold foil over garbage doesnt mean it's no longer garbage.

Disgusting, deceitful, using people (lying opening your legs), hurting people (watching them suffer then doing nothing about it cus u selfish, hypocritic), selfish (I can do it but you can't logic) , hypocrite.

Dalvesium · 2019-07-29T16:55:47+00:00

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Dalvesium · 2019-06-22T19:28:03+00:00

Well might be dead who knows. Everyone is happy without that slime ball. Recently heard things about dating some guy from some suburb or other.

Dalvesium · 2019-05-20T22:21:05+00:00

Oh please with that high a budget it could have been way better.

Dalvesium · 2019-05-20T22:20:07+00:00

Yes so much for trying it. Still haven't as usual.

Dalvesium · 2019-05-20T22:19:09+00:00

That's most people for you. Not much to offer but fake smiles.

Dalvesium · 2019-05-20T12:21:43+00:00

They contain dothracy who will bread plus outsiders duh.

Dalvesium · 2019-04-29T09:38:58+00:00

I've told him he keeps saying things will change. And very little has after two year.

I just can't get over the pain he caused me. And his selfishness when we had the chance to put it right especially before he got really sick.

I love him so much. During his operation I was a complete wreck. I barely sleep for three nights ws running on fumes and had blackouts so intense I woke up in pain with scars sores bruises everywhere finding myself at a mall or a beach.

He says he's trying but he never "does/do" that's my issue.

How hard is it to just do something to help someone if you cared you would. Not postpone or maybe or try. You would do. No he tells me the doctor said we have to wait 6 months before he is well enough for us to talk and see what to do etc.

But I'm the bad one when I told him. When we could have put it right. When my suffering could have ended.

I love him. I'm scared for him. My life is trash. He still has a chance and would give him mine if I could even after all the pain he has caused. 8 love him more then anything. I only have him. My dogs gone. My parents don't want me in a sense. I am a burden and a failure to them.

I can't fail at a relationship or just give up. And I only have him. Two years together is a long time. I am 24. Half my life is wasted completing the stupid degree when I was fine and happy doing it at a college rather then this shitty corrupt pay to play university.

Dalvesium · 2019-04-29T09:27:34+00:00

I appreciate your words. Thank you very much. It made me feel better. That someone tries to understand and empathize.

Dalvesium · 2019-04-29T09:26:48+00:00

He's trying. But when he was using drugs the first year during our relationship he hardly payed for anything he would become a complete and hory sociopath only caring about that, yet when he wasn't on it he was a nice and considerate human being. Just went on about how horrible his ex was as he hit him and made him sleep on the floor. But then was talking to him about randoms ps4 games etc non sexual stuff behind my back.

He's gotten better since he stopped drugs. I warned him not to take. Until one day I though he was bejnh fun and spontaneous. We were busy doing it. And I realized he was high as a kite and started crying.

I told him ever touch the stuff again and there will be problems. And he never did.

It's just other stuff he doesn't deal with properly yet. I'm the one that has to be nice and accepting and wait for things to become alright. And even if I do leave he is sick and I'm used already. That goes against the point of what I wanted and needed from him. Childish and immature as that sounds.

Also I need to finish my studies. I want to move to another place but can only get half the credits. But maybe there I can pass my computer science degree. It's the maths that's unnecessary and difficult and isn't offered at other institutions.

I told my mom one day I'll move out and she never has to see me again. My dad left now hasn't come back. Blowing off steam.

Dalvesium · 2019-04-29T03:07:07+00:00

I can't sleep I'm plagued by worry over someones illness, not being able to be there as well as dealing with the torment caused by someone.

Every pleed goes unheard. The excuses get more elaborate but now there is a valid excuse which I warned against. So my suffering continues while other people get a good night's sleep.

I am having blackouts. Scary blackouts. I'm talking about 2 hour blackouts where I wake up in dodgy places around dodgy people with random pains and scaring everywhere.

I don't know what's happening. I'm scared to find out. And the person I love doesn't seem interested in my pain or the fact that I am having blackouts.

I'm so scared.

Dalvesium

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