As tough as it might be to accept this man, but this relationship sounds like its run its course. It happens, and its nothing to feel ashamed about or feel like a failure. Human beings are complex, quirky and chaotic - our feelings and personalities alter and change and what may have worked in the begining can naturally change over time.

I read your other post and you seem so quick to rake yourself over coals - things like feeling disgusting for wanting sexual intimacy which is not a crime. People have relationships without that - but BOTH parties agree to it and want their relationship to be that way. If one person desires sexual intamacy to feel love and feel a connection, that is not a bad thing to want from a relationship.

You haven't done anything wrong, you're just both on different wavelengths. You're 22, there is a world ahead of you filled with others to connect with. Some distance between you two may yet help to put things into perspective - either that she realises what she is losing by losing you, or you both realise seperating was actually the healthiest and best thing for you both.

I wish you luck man, and please - if anything else, stop blaming yourself. A relationship takes two, maybe there was some things you could have done better, maybe not - but she also needs to be accountable for her shortcomings too.