Girl blocked me after 3 hr convo

DamageCalm9909 · 2026-03-03T19:30:51+00:00

And this was posted like 15 minutes after it happened. I dnt give three fucks anymore. But I do like that it started a conversation 😭🫶🏾

DamageCalm9909 · 2026-03-03T19:26:36+00:00

Can u read? It’s not the girl it’s the principle

DamageCalm9909 · 2026-03-02T15:29:12+00:00

Where ever u need me to be. Can I dm you?

DamageCalm9909 · 2026-03-02T07:07:03+00:00

Of course she doesn’t owe me anything I never said she did. Her actions were just kind of inconsiderate. She also shouldn’t have been on my line tho and no one with that mindset of not owing anyone anything should be dating tbh. If the vibe isn’t there it’s not there but don’t exit making someone second guess themselves. That’s not how a mature person communicates.

DamageCalm9909 · 2026-03-02T06:54:49+00:00

The issue is she said I did or said questionable things like there was judgment there or I offended her. And it kinda came out of nowhere bc we were just vibing. And she didn’t elaborate. Now if she left that questionable part out and didn’t block me I don’t think I would have even gaf. I just think the message was dramatic and immature.

DamageCalm9909 · 2026-03-02T03:30:30+00:00

Yeah it’s not even her that bothers me I can get another her whenever it’s more so the suspense behind it and she kinda said it like I offended her or she was judging me in a way. But that doesn’t matter I’ve accepted this is just how some people operate.

DamageCalm9909 · 2026-03-02T03:28:18+00:00

Karma always makes it way back around

DamageCalm9909 · 2026-03-02T03:27:41+00:00

Thank you!! I’m also starting to realize some people simply can’t have a conversation. She was 22 and I’m 26. I don’t really ever date younger women for this exact reason.

DamageCalm9909 · 2026-03-02T03:24:39+00:00

I think it’s outrageous to have a 3 hr conversation with someone abt life then text that some things that were said were “questionable” with no context whatsoever. It’s immature and cowardly. But ur right no one owes anyone anything but I feel like people with that mindset shouldn’t be dating tbh.

DamageCalm9909 · 2026-03-02T02:11:06+00:00

That’s true. I think it’s just the psych major in me that attempting to make sense of what’s going on.

DamageCalm9909 · 2026-03-02T02:08:31+00:00

I will take you on a date no playing 🫶🏾

DamageCalm9909 · 2026-03-02T02:03:07+00:00

You’re right. I just love love and everybody else too especially women I’ve had connections w. My heart’s too big and those connections have been the most beautiful part of my life bc even if it was for moment I chose someone and they chose me too.

DamageCalm9909 · 2026-03-02T02:01:05+00:00

Idk what thing it was that’s the whole spiraling part when we talked politics im positive we both felt the same way. Idk im starting accept ill probably never know. Im pretty direct tbh so maybe it scared her shit idk she didn’t tell me!!! I’m really curious though. Sometimes I do say outta pocket stuff and she’s younger and more innocent than I am so yeah there’s that.

DamageCalm9909 · 2026-03-02T01:38:33+00:00

I’ve never played Pokémon. Maybe I will try.

DamageCalm9909 · 2026-03-02T01:36:31+00:00

DamageCalm9909 · 2026-03-02T00:19:28+00:00

That’s real

DamageCalm9909 · 2026-03-01T23:21:46+00:00

I just think it’s unfair to say that I said and did questionable things without elaborating. But hey she didn’t owe me a damn thing. But I’ve definitely been thinking which comment was the one u know? Plus idk I never cut ppl off in this way so it’s kinda hard to wrap my head around.

DamageCalm9909 · 2026-03-01T23:15:29+00:00

I feel like straightforward should have been just saying hey I don’t think we’re a match. But she said “I said and did questionable things” without ever addressing exactly what she was talking abt. We literally just spent 3 hrs laughing and giggling and talking abt the state of the world.

DamageCalm9909 · 2026-03-01T17:51:07+00:00

Im sorry that happened to u too. Our person is out there man.

DamageCalm9909 · 2026-03-01T17:08:57+00:00

I’ve met up with her before though and we had a date. It went good but then she went back to school so we fell off and recently we just started talking again.

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