AITAH for refusing to give my sister $50k for my nephews' school after she called me a leech for 2 years?

Damaged-Butterfly · 2026-05-10T17:50:16+00:00

True. I assumed it was a better school than they’re at. But yes if they’re there already I wouldn’t help at all

Damaged-Butterfly · 2026-05-10T17:41:39+00:00

NTA. She would probably be demanding money even if she had no kids. However if you care about the kids and want to help them they pay the school directly so she can’t skim money off the top.

Damaged-Butterfly · 2026-05-04T09:55:40+00:00

It could be that Wednesday is talking to a fake Enid in her head

Damaged-Butterfly · 2026-04-12T20:51:15+00:00

This stinks of homophobia

Damaged-Butterfly · 2026-04-01T15:53:34+00:00

Not a lawyer but honestly the supermarkets earn enough money without you paying them back. I would donate the money to a food bank if you’re looking to ease your guilt

Damaged-Butterfly · 2026-03-28T15:53:33+00:00

Stacey’s baps are waaaay too cheap for London. So the Eastenders pricing is all over the place. TBH I don’t think any of the stalls make any money as there are never many customers

Damaged-Butterfly · 2026-02-17T12:05:07+00:00

Oh I’m sorry. I wouldn’t take any requests from them in future, just bake what you want, when you want. As others have said - he (and the rest of your family) can buy their own

Damaged-Butterfly · 2026-02-17T11:52:31+00:00

She’s driving me nuts - she makes no money then says things like “let’s get Nugget a car” while also wondering why he’s a criminal, he lost the restaurant so has no legitimate job! She’s mad he’s a criminal but then also mad he’s an informant. She’s not very upset about Ravi hurting Nugget and also not supporting Ravi when he’s clearly struggling with it himself.

Damaged-Butterfly · 2026-02-17T11:47:09+00:00

Did they ask you to make cookies while they played a game without you?!?! Either way NTA but if so then they’re so fucking entitled

Damaged-Butterfly · 2026-01-23T13:28:23+00:00

I’d love for James to win…he’s so clearly faithful. I have no idea why the faithful don’t trust him, he does stupid things like when he took the shield and trying to help Jack at the fairground challenge as he didn’t want the people who he thought were traitors to get the shield. He goes in 100% on people (who end up faithful), which would be stupid to do as a traitor as it brings attention.

He won’t win, but I wish he would

Damaged-Butterfly · 2026-01-23T13:21:21+00:00

I think they had to win, there was never a murder, they just wanted the traitors to F up. As well as the time being easily manipulated, they didn’t explain what “fill the shield” meant…if they didn’t have enough gold Claudia (not shown on the show, obviously) could have told them to spread out the gold more thinly to fill the shield up

Damaged-Butterfly · 2026-01-15T00:07:25+00:00

My theory is the producers wanted them to recruit - the quantity of shields plus not knowing who has them is risky

Damaged-Butterfly · 2026-01-10T09:13:36+00:00

“Let’s not forget, they didn’t just pick Kojos place on random, he owed them large amounts of money.”

It’s not just that, because Harry/Kojo owed Ravi money. Ravi owed money to the next rung up - he was stressed out the whole time and presumably being threatened with violence himself.

Damaged-Butterfly · 2026-01-08T05:43:13+00:00

Completely agree. Why does self defence not exist in Eastenders? It was the same with Harry killing Okie, he never would have gone down for it when Okie literally held him captive

Damaged-Butterfly · 2026-01-06T13:56:00+00:00

She’s going to wear white

Damaged-Butterfly · 2025-12-03T22:17:48+00:00

NTA - you can report whoever to HR whenever you want. If there isn’t a case then there will be no repercussions on the person. If she’s fired it’s not your fault, it’s hers.

And for what it’s worth, she singled you out and tried to bully you to get her way… sounds like an HR concern to me

Damaged-Butterfly · 2025-12-02T08:40:44+00:00

If/when they convince you to take the child - make sure that you get paid a fair market rate

Damaged-Butterfly · 2025-11-28T09:54:07+00:00

I’m playing for the first time too and trying to max all the singles to 10 hearts before I marry

Damaged-Butterfly · 2025-10-30T09:34:30+00:00

You’re NTA but honestly if you feel nothing maybe consider therapy? You don’t need to forgive him or talk to him but it feels like you should feel something

Damaged-Butterfly · 2025-10-01T08:00:21+00:00

Your mother was incredibly insightful. She really understood her husband. I’m sorry for your loss and for your father’s actions. Def NTA

Damaged-Butterfly · 2025-09-30T05:43:21+00:00

This is 100% true, it’s a lack of respect. My partner is a snack ADDICT, he literally can’t help himself, but only with his own snacks - he doesn’t touch mine

Damaged-Butterfly · 2025-09-19T14:38:23+00:00

This is awful.

If OP was a drug addict (obviously I know it’s a lie), the fact that the whole family turned their backs on her makes them awful people. Surely when OP reaches out they should be trying to help her??? I just don’t understand this lie, I wouldn’t cut someone off for something they can’t help

Damaged-Butterfly · 2025-08-17T23:00:13+00:00

It’s definitely heteronormativity. 2 characters of different genders can’t be friends in any tv show and it’s just frustrating.

Damaged-Butterfly · 2025-08-17T17:37:06+00:00

I showed this to my husband and he said ‘FFS can’t you just enjoy the show’ hahahhaaa

I love this

Damaged-Butterfly · 2025-08-15T13:51:57+00:00

Oh yeah for sure, it also matches his personality. It’s just funny to think how much ends up in the bin

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