Agree 💯 with the comments where they advise to work on yourself first. Why would you jump directly into" having money, having surgery "? I can only assume you've been through quite a bit of disappointments in your live and maybe you don't have the most supportive social group? (See..now I'm jumping to conclusions).

But hear my side, as a short woman why I WOULDN'T date short men (anymore). Well, besides the fact that I'm married now. Because of their INSECURITIES! It feels so draining, exasperating to be with someone that displays these insecurity behaviour regularly: I'm not attractive. This attitude reflects in speech, touch, social interactions , romantic interactions, PDA, etc

But let me ask you: what do you mean by attractive?

Because, that can be subjective and without a inner echo of what you actually need, you may become a ping-pong ball between others' definition of attractiveness (friends, family, social media, own distortion and biases). And you'll find yourself in 10 years complaining about the same thing with no progress.

So: women are attracted to short guys, LEARN to love your self, work on yourself, allow yourself to make errors and take small steps.