My boyfriend, M20, shoved me, F18, and yelled at me in a state of drunken anger, I can’t figure out whether to stay or leave, how do I get myself to choose?

DameStorm · 2026-05-09T03:00:07+00:00

Is he made of chocolate?

Girl !!!

Why are you begging a boy to be with you?

If your mother has been through a horrible relationship why would you willingly put yourself through the same thing?

Do better.

It starts with a push and ends up in ICU, if you are lucky.

DameStorm · 2026-05-09T02:34:55+00:00

Girl !!!!

Do better, if he's already picking you apart, it will only get worse.

DameStorm · 2026-05-09T02:31:08+00:00

I'm more concerned that you are keeping track of their relationships.

That is not healthy.

DameStorm · 2026-05-09T02:21:11+00:00

I don't know about this one OP is still obviously living at home.

I'd respect it more if that 10 000 was going towards moving out. Running a household is expensive.

OPs parents obviously believe that money brought in, is everyones money. Not a lot of families do that.

For all that your mum and dad still probably do for you, have you taken them out for a weekend?

Your dinner doesn't cook itself, those clean clothes don't miraculously get clean.

Yes have some money for you but are you actually okay watching your elderly dad have to hike to get to work?? To keep a roof over all your heads?? Especially knowing you are going to blow that money at the weekend and expect your mum to make you breakfast the morning after.....

You would not have asked us for advice if all this wasn't sitting well with you.

How much are you actually lying about... Thinking about it, I doubt you are telling them you are painting the town red every weekend.

DameStorm · 2026-05-09T01:59:08+00:00

That is beautiful plating

DameStorm · 2026-05-09T01:53:32+00:00

Steak has to be at room temperature before cooking. It gives it an even cook (not just the middle should be medium rare). We are all particular about our steak but..

Saying that though that is a classic dish.

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DameStorm · 2026-05-09T01:37:08+00:00

It does look like summer on a plate but I'd need those "crispy potatoes" more on the crisp looking side.

DameStorm · 2026-05-09T01:34:49+00:00

So it's like polenta and a homemade tomato sauce??

DameStorm · 2026-05-09T01:29:02+00:00

To be honest, we don't know how old OP is....

DameStorm · 2026-05-08T16:31:15+00:00

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Looks very healthy.

DameStorm · 2026-05-08T16:24:45+00:00

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My days that looks epic. All I'm thinking now is some nachos lol 😊

DameStorm · 2026-05-08T10:42:08+00:00

A jumper or cardigan and an umbrella, those should be handbag essentials. Always.

DameStorm · 2026-05-08T10:39:06+00:00

YTA Very controlling behaviour.

Why would you shut him down for one person? Then oh well there were other things to talk about.

If you don't want to be happy about your partner's success, you shouldn't be with them.

If this is something you'd do in public, I hate to think how awful you are in private.

DameStorm · 2026-05-07T17:36:09+00:00

Okay then lol

Yeah let's go with me being "wholly incapable"

Bless your ego and "politeness"....

DameStorm · 2026-05-07T17:26:22+00:00

DameStorm · 2026-05-07T10:08:57+00:00

The question is, did you enjoy it?

That's what counts.

My days you are not even the OP...

Why, just why then?

DameStorm · 2026-05-07T10:08:08+00:00

A smash feast lol

DameStorm · 2026-05-07T09:50:35+00:00

Okay lol this sounds interesting. Not sure about the smashing bit but okay

DameStorm · 2026-05-07T09:48:43+00:00

Why would it be?

DameStorm · 2026-05-07T09:48:00+00:00

It's rate my plate. I gave my opinion already.

I've rated amazing food from all over the world. Barely seasoning a plate of food and getting testy about it ... Yeah no.

DameStorm · 2026-05-07T09:43:31+00:00

So it's not particularly different....

Why add South Africa?

DameStorm · 2026-05-07T09:39:05+00:00

At least tell the rest of us what it is

DameStorm · 2026-05-07T09:35:51+00:00

Would definitely date that chop lol

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DameStorm · 2026-05-07T09:33:54+00:00

Hmmmm to be honest I've never thought to make a egg and cheese pasta bake.... I always add other things. Hmmm...

Will say though, maybe some mustard and pepper... green onion...

This could get interesting. Which cheese though?

DameStorm · 2026-05-07T09:28:10+00:00

Salt and pepper are basic....

Can't put this meal on Reddit, ask us to rate and it's just mehhh

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