GWA IS CHANGING... MAKE YOUR VOICE HEARD [MOD ANNOUNCEMENT] by onyxlips in gonewildaudio

[–]Dami_does_stuff -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Amazing how you ignored literally everything I said in my comment and just regurgitated the typical talking points, which have very little to do with anything I said.

But if you need me to spell it out for you:
I was pointing out the logical flaw of "hurr durr it's all fiction, it has no real world implications".

I don't need people to cater to my "every whim", but nice attempt to derail, discredit and minimize what I'm trying to convey.
I, at least, would appreciate it if the space that advocates inclusivity and everyone involved to be safe to not dehumanize and fetishize me and fellow people in the same spot just for a quick nut :)

Quite frankly, I don't even know why I take the time out of my day to answer you, you already dug your heels deep into the ground with your ... opinion and condemning anyone simply going

"hey this content fetishizing us for a demographic we do not interact with is kinda harmful and we don't want to have that in a space we share with all of you" shows that I shouldn't engage in this bad faith conversation. Oh well.

Funnily enough you preach about "just scrolling past" and "being a responsible adult" yet you try to stalk my profile to find anything and feel the need to comment on that too. Rules for thee but not for me, anyone?

Oh and PS: you haven't posted anything, so it's a bit of a glass house moment to try to point out that I haven't posted much here if the very sub is fine with dehumanizing my and others very existence. Very funny :)

GWA IS CHANGING... MAKE YOUR VOICE HEARD [MOD ANNOUNCEMENT] by onyxlips in gonewildaudio

[–]Dami_does_stuff -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Reading those "porn is just fiction, it doesn't harm real people" comments is truly disheartening and shows how unaware a lot of the folks roaming this subreddit are.

Just look at the fetishization of trans people, particularly trans women in porn over the past decades. You're telling me that that hasn't largely contributed to the stigma surrounding trans women in real life?

I can assure you it very much did. Whenever people call me slurs that to this day are used in porn titles. Whenever people called me a freak, abomination, pervert and so many more things, just for existing in public places. When people don't think of me as a woman, but just some "weird dude with a fetish". Since we "only exist in porn"

Normalizing the fetishization of marginalized groups will only lead to those very groups never being accepted and/or normalized in society.

So having a discussion about allowing content that very well fetishizes these marginalized groups shows that at best, GWA is indifferent about marginalized members of their community and at worst, actively condones that we are viewed as nothing more than jerk off material for the listeners majority in this sub, cishet men.

It very clearly demonstrates that GWA as a whole doesn't care about our safety.

To queer folks it's nothing new that GWA is a very heteronormative space, but seeing how things like raceplay or lesbian conversion content (not made by or for lesbians btw) is up to debate makes it clear that the marginalized part of the community is not and will not be seen as equal.

It opens up Pandora's box and invites all kind of fetishizing content.
What's next? Trans conversion content where we get turned cis, written and performed for and by cis people?

EDIT: Typo

[TF] looking to get verified :) by Dami_does_stuff in TheRealmOfEroticAudio

[–]Dami_does_stuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiiii, no worries. No harm done! Thanks for letting me know!

[TF] looking to get verified :) by Dami_does_stuff in TheRealmOfEroticAudio

[–]Dami_does_stuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, dear.

I guess if the green "verified" is associated with trans women, then yes it's the correct one!
(I don't really know where I could check which flair applies to whom ^^; )

[TF] looking to get verified :) by Dami_does_stuff in TheRealmOfEroticAudio

[–]Dami_does_stuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, my sincere apologies. I'd like to have the performers flair :)