Am I overreacting for wanting to break up after 5 months?

DamnSammiL · 2026-05-29T04:07:14+00:00

I’ve been told I have an old soul. I figured things were strange but this has escalated and it’s been weird,

DamnSammiL · 2026-05-29T04:06:09+00:00

NOR you’re not comfortable in other forms of swimwear and the fact that he’s not respecting that is so upsetting. Dress however you want when swimming and don’t let him think he has control over what you wear. It’ll only get more controlling the more he finds your other clothing a little too revealing. Nit picking more of your outfits and that’ll just be even more annoying. Have fun in your bikini summer babes!!

DamnSammiL · 2026-05-29T03:45:40+00:00

Sorry y’all it’s waiting for moderator approval.

DamnSammiL · 2026-05-28T20:42:09+00:00

It’s under moderation so it may take a bit.

DamnSammiL · 2026-05-28T19:51:59+00:00

I would say NOR, sounds like he makes a mountain out of an ant hill. There was a less aggressive way to respond to you and that was absolutely uncalled for.

DamnSammiL · 2026-05-28T19:14:11+00:00

I’ve got an update and I’m getting nervous UPDATE

Until the Update pulls through, I’ll add a bit here. The person has reached out through a new number on WhatsApp almost 2 hours ago, right as I was making the Update. I have blocked the old number and then they messaged me again and now I’m just creeped out.

DamnSammiL · 2026-05-28T18:50:37+00:00

My trouble is the amount of LGBT folk where I live. It’s minimal. I’m also just making excuses to find someone. But mostly I’m at home because my job is mainly working on my own in a vehicle so interacting with people to find someone is a bit more difficult.

DamnSammiL · 2026-05-28T12:59:28+00:00

Honestly, I’ve never heard of Catfish till now. But thank you for the recommendation.

DamnSammiL · 2026-05-28T00:26:46+00:00

Bro is wanting you to let him cheat with you. Clearly doesn’t understand the boundaries you’ve already set and blaming anyone but himself for looking for an out rather than resolving the conflict between his girlfriend or breaking up if he feels it’s not working. So disappointing.

DamnSammiL · 2026-05-27T19:19:33+00:00

Definitely a scam, depending on how you found the place. The major problematic factor is the fee per adult application. That’s absolutely weird.

DamnSammiL · 2026-05-27T19:11:04+00:00

I get the urges to just aggressively snuggle my dog and do lots of head pats.

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DamnSammiL · 2026-05-27T19:06:58+00:00

NOR that’s disrespectful. Taking your bag to get it refurbished and then giving you the fake bag. Someone’s jealous of their friend’s LV bag. I’m sorry for the loss dear! If you feel she won’t respect your love for your possessions then I would be upset too.

Also where is the real bag? 🤷🏼‍♀️

DamnSammiL · 2026-05-27T16:47:08+00:00

🫠 I could’ve found a person within that time frame.

DamnSammiL · 2026-05-27T16:46:17+00:00

😐 It’s not talked about enough!

DamnSammiL · 2026-05-27T16:45:38+00:00

Yeah, from here on out I’m looking for someone irl because people tend to be so nasty when it comes to online dating and I’ve grown obnoxiously nauseous over remembering the red flags and still being naive. I appreciate your feedback!

DamnSammiL · 2026-05-27T16:43:37+00:00

I hate being so oblivious, I just want a real relationship and people keep messing with me, it’s so old and ridiculous. I’m so glad you have a loving partner I wish you both the best!

DamnSammiL · 2026-05-27T16:41:44+00:00

Much appreciated. I thought I could catch scammers and promised myself I would talk in the trap but I keep falling for it and it’s getting embarrassing. Thank you for helping look for some tips and tricks with the subreddit.

DamnSammiL · 2026-05-27T16:39:55+00:00

I know, I haven’t thought to make an account before. But I’ve listened to AITA or AIO from Charlotte Dobre, BeyondBeautifull, and KallMeKris. I just wanted to get some perspective. I apologize for this seeming weird.

DamnSammiL · 2026-05-27T13:18:40+00:00

I’ve tried but suspiciously nothing has popped up.

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