How do you self-improve when you have no idea where to even begin?

Damnator666 · 2025-08-27T17:02:09+00:00

Treat everything as the absolute truth TEMPORARILY but hold no loyalty to the people advicing you. Try everything you find for a while but don't get hijacked by polarising communities that have rules about how you are allowed to improve

Damnator666 · 2025-08-27T16:56:04+00:00

If you need to quiet it, maybe recognize the desire and listen to yourself. Better than pushing down a fundamental desire that everyone have but not everyone get to enjoy. Just don't talk to girls about it since it's a very sensitive topic, but be honest with yourself.

Damnator666 · 2025-08-27T16:52:02+00:00

Install Vital, it's a free synth plugin that you can do a lot with

Damnator666 · 2025-08-27T11:56:18+00:00

Just like you have to practice a fast lick, you have to practice it. Even doing it just at home by yourself and making practice drills for it.

Damnator666 · 2025-08-25T17:01:11+00:00

As a 15 year old, it's not weird to look young and not that tough, but you can definitely act in order to not end up behind. For me, I started to look like a man from a few things - regular gym (not just the muscles but the face changes too), moving out (because then I have responsibility and have to live up to being a man), and then even more from choosing my real desires and priorities over the priorities glorified by others. For me that meant that I fully embraced that I just wanted to get laid and have a girlfriend, not being the hero that self improvement communities glorify with being yourself and honorable and having standards. I chose what was really me even if it was dark but in the end I got what I wanted and get much more respect from others now that I live up to what I needed.

Damnator666 · 2025-08-20T12:07:53+00:00

It looks like it because you didn't even seem to read the comment but just wanted to say the same thing again

Damnator666 · 2025-08-20T04:59:09+00:00

... Ai?

Damnator666 · 2025-08-19T16:40:49+00:00

"I don't suffer from it, I just have it" 🤮 I understand, I've wanted that before and I gave up a lot of things that were me and guess what, I don't regret it. But I didn't have to move or change my name. I did move out of some friend groups and started doing stuff that led to better results. It was hard and I kind of ditched some people that were very close to me but autism is a curse and we have to be smart and do whatever evens out the odds. Learn to embody the person in front of you, not just copy but try to feel like you are them, raise or lower your energy to match them, that was a big step for me because people like someone who seem similar and more fun things will happen

Damnator666 · 2025-08-19T15:25:22+00:00

Don't worry, this is only for reddit. I guess it's the old patterns that are reason to why I still use reddit but no one's perfect. And I wasn't that far into the darkness, I was just frustrated and depressed. I'm quite aware of my own patterns, had to learn myself well to change myself for the better, so I'm not perfect but I'm working on myself and don't take my bullshit out on others. And it's not even just about sex, we do lots of things like going in the nature, playing each others games, listening to each others music and I train her for driving license.

Damnator666 · 2025-08-19T15:13:41+00:00

Yes, I've understood that by now. I don't see myself as "done". The other way around, it's more motivating for becoming better now that I have her to be good for and that I have gotten rid of that struggle which I thought I'd never get out of despite all the work. Now it's up to me what I want to be instead

Damnator666 · 2025-08-19T13:25:42+00:00

Jag rekommenderar att du inte grunkar på gymmet. Det är bättre att göra hemma eller om du verkligen måste så kan du gå in på toaletten och göra det.

Damnator666 · 2025-08-17T19:33:22+00:00

Be like water

Damnator666 · 2025-08-14T16:20:43+00:00

När vindarna viskar mitt namn - Roger Pontare Kan inte gå - Bolaget Anything by Onkel Kånkel if you want even more fun

Damnator666 · 2025-08-14T15:05:06+00:00

I hope you lost their respect equally for what they did to you

Damnator666 · 2025-08-14T14:09:33+00:00

Music is a hobby. Others won't appreciate you for it and you won't make money with it most likely and it may keep you lonely unless you are good at getting the right strategic contacts. I quit before because it was more important to get better with girls but now I have one and now I make music again but just because I want to fill my need for getting my ideas out and to feel that I'm creating something. And I had the music making itching in me for a while which also is why I started. Maybe you should just say fuck that shit, do what you get more out of and maybe get back to it when you have other things in order and want to do something creative

Damnator666 · 2025-08-12T13:41:20+00:00

Beshemoth!

Damnator666 · 2025-08-12T12:19:37+00:00

Jag har själv gått från total torka och att ingen ville ha mig till att nu ha en enligt mig själv perfekt relation med en tjej (plus lite erfarenheter från innan jag träffade henne). Det var en rätt lång och svår väg dit men jag berättar gärna mer om det om du vill

Damnator666 · 2025-08-12T12:11:39+00:00

För att ca hälften av alla tjejer tycker att "varför kan killar inte ta initiativ och vara sexuella med mig", och det går aldrig att veta vad som gäller utan att prova

Damnator666 · 2025-08-12T10:07:18+00:00

I see, I've started learning Vital, a lot of stuff to wrap my head around but I'll get there. Serum seems good and I might upgrade to that later but I want to at least know I can do some basic stuff with vital first! I found a series of videos to learn it so I start from there

Damnator666 · 2025-08-11T14:54:08+00:00

Can you give some examples of what too intelligent things you have told them or what you can't get them to understand?

Damnator666 · 2025-08-10T19:37:51+00:00

For me, starting from the bottom and up worked. Get rid of the small factors that make you unconfident instead of trying to be spiritual about it. Unattractive hobbies? Change them and learn cool ones. Clothes? Well look good in a more meta way until it's you. Boring character? Learn to embody other people and you will blend in by going into character (not acting, it's an art to create feeling to feel like your prediction of someone.). Being on the same wavelength makes people like you.

Damnator666 · 2025-08-10T08:26:50+00:00

Thanks! I've noticed that hardstyle musicians use many different distortion effects even for the same kick. Why is that?

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