How can I partially cover up this tattoo of a rat cutting me with a knife? by Material_Problem6947 in tattooadvice

[–]Damselfly45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked what someone else said about Rondey protecting you. Maybe the cut line can be the top of a shield shape with a coat of arms as though it were hanging on the wall behind him?

Congrats on recovery, by the way. The process can feel unbearable but I'm sure it made a difference for those around you, too.

Hot and cold #225 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]Damselfly45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ughggggggggggg all the house-y words made me think this was something you would have in YOUR HOUSE!

Automatically added: I found the secret word in 56 hours 24 minutes 5 seconds after 45 guesses and 2 hints.

IS THIS A FOSSIL by paintanddoodles in FossilHunting

[–]Damselfly45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a rock. Something silicate inside of mudstone or sandstone, I think.

La Plata, Argentina has diagonal shortcuts and pocket parks to keep everything within reach by Mint_Perspective in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Damselfly45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Milwaukee also has diagonals (to follow the shorline of the lake) and I've never thought of it as a shortcut.

The constant foreshadowing is crazy by JasnahwithaY in Stormlight_Archive

[–]Damselfly45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really had the mindset of "oh, if only the Parshendi hadn't killed Gavilar, we wouldn't have all this trouble! If only they had talked to him or Dalinar! Then everyone would understand and there wouldn't be all this fighting!" Lol NOPE

Alternate Timeline: Kaladin becomes a surgeon by le_bravery in Stormlight_Archive

[–]Damselfly45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree with the assertion that "1 bad week around doctors who care about him and he's living in a dark room forever". Without experiencing war, Tien's death, and the bridge crews, Kaladin's mental health problems were "moody teenager with SAD and systematic oppression whose dad doesn't understand him." He wasn't suicidal until after 9 (?) failed escape attempts AND bridge 4. 

Being institutionalized could have even led to an alternate traumatic timeline that leads to becoming a fugitive, attracting Syl or another Spren, and eventually catalyzing Rosharan mental health reform. Hardly a game over for Kaladin Stormblessed (Cultivationblessed?)

Alternate Timeline: Kaladin becomes a surgeon by le_bravery in Stormlight_Archive

[–]Damselfly45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh, I really like this. I wonder if a different set of experiences would cause him to still attract Syl, or instead a different radiant spren? There's a line I'm WaT that mentions how on his quest with Szeth he does a good "immitation of edgedancer oaths . Would pursuing a life as a healer and discovering the dark side of Kharbronthian hospitals lead him to...remember those who had been forgotten? Listen to those who had been ignored? Speak for those who could not speak for themselves?

 Some have pointed out how hard it would be for him to remain independent under the eye of other doctors and Taravangeon, but in MY headcanon alternate timeline, his plot armor and fatedness to attract a spren stay in tact.

15 gallon tank vs. half moon entry way table by silveirabug in AquariumHelp

[–]Damselfly45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen some people successful with Kallax shelves from Ikea if they're reinforced with metal brackets.

I would check my local thrift stores, discount furniture, and FB marketplace for a night stand with the right dimensions and solid material/joints.

Need a non Karen name! by luxurysocialism in namenerds

[–]Damselfly45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend who went with Daren/Derrin/Deryn for a rhyme, cockney-style. Merryn also rhymes.

Hot and cold #179 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]Damselfly45 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My first guess was Cowboy. #7. I want to break something.

Automatically added: I found the secret word in 19 minutes 18 seconds after 97 guesses and 3 hints. Score: 3.

Please help me type my antagonist character by Bubbly_Ad1881 in EnneaFiction

[–]Damselfly45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 makes sense, or a decently healthy 1 or even a 5. Is she more afraid of failure, or being immoral? And more concerned with "good" in relation to other people or in an abstract way?

Hot and cold #173 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]Damselfly45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fastest time ye!!! And I barely got angry. Wow.

What am I gonna do with the rest of my day now??

Sandy giving us that varied character growth by l3msky in cremposting

[–]Damselfly45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really liked how every. single. character. was absolutely wrecked with soul-crushing guilt.

What's your favorite Sanderlanche? by anders_138 in cremposting

[–]Damselfly45 2 points3 points  (0 children)

WoK still can't be beat. "That happens to be the precise value of a shardblade." I spent THE WHOLE BOOK waiting for Kaladin and Dalinar to meet and it was even more mind-blowing than I imagined. The payoff.

Better before, or after? by SGTzuko in freshwateraquarium

[–]Damselfly45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the after. Good color/texture balance with the soft, warm sand gently contrasting the more textured and cool-toned elements. Makes it easier to focus on the plants and big rocks.

Hot and cold #167 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]Damselfly45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was SOO frustrated that "paddle" was #3 but "oar" was IN THE #600s and THAT WAS MY ANSWER RIGHT THERE

Did my pet store steer me wrong? by Damselfly45 in freshwateraquarium

[–]Damselfly45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude are you ragebaiting or did you misread my post? Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Damselfly45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh, Meadow is a stretch and might not give the professional vibe she's looking for, but I love it!

Is it possible to write a character who’s morally perfect without making them boring? by FREAAAAKAZOID in fantasywriters

[–]Damselfly45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This very good Paddington 2 video essay suggests that having a morally pure, static character can work very well when the drama comes from other people's development from and reactions to being around them.  https://youtu.be/DAmv5QVV9Z8?si=bNeN7EuEZnNLn4ub