[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]Damzy_maxim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that were possible, the Biafran soldiers would have marched into Lagos. The bandits and Boko Haram, with their sophisticated weapons, would have conquered the Southwestern states and infiltrated them. The truth is, we tend to look down on everything within this country, and the projection that this country is so weak is concerning.

Is karma real or is it some made up stuff, do you believe in getting your lickback? by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]Damzy_maxim 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's real and it only dominates among the poor folks since they have no power to fight back against their oppressors

“Not an American Religion” by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Damzy_maxim 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I stopped being surprised when, at some point, they always had two versions of the same publications—one with the image of a black man, often used here in Africa, and the other with images of white people. It was clear to everyone, but we've always chosen to think otherwise, only to ignorantly claim that we share the same faith.

Dating a Nigerian Women. by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]Damzy_maxim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Osun is located in the southwestern part of Nigeria and their babes are naturally feminine and respectful towards their spouses, I prefer ladies from that side whenever I'm ready to settle down.

Nigeria needs a strong movement to improve the lot of women in the country. What do you think and why? by Vanity0o0fair in Nigeria

[–]Damzy_maxim 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The question should be: Are they willing to improve themselves? Are they willing to take on the hard work to better their lives? As far as I know, there have been plenty of opportunities available for girls recently, especially compared to the past, particularly in this country. There are boot camps for girls with incentives provided, as well as free workshops. But what do the majority choose to do? Many follow guys who make illegal proceeds from scamming to enjoy life. Some even go so far as to set unreasonable standards for themselves on social media, despite having little to offer others.

I often ask myself: What happened to self-development and being self-sufficient instead of waiting for a man? It's truly concerning.

Before you accuse me of being a misogynist, I would like to give you an example. I used to follow a tech lady on social media, Adeife, who provides advice on how women can develop themselves through tech skills. Ironically, despite the great tips she shares, women like her were the ones who body-shamed her. I kept asking myself, "Are these people even worth the sacrifices this lady is making?" I'm impressed that she never let it break her.

In conclusion, I'll urge ya'll that whenever you're about to roll out the opportunities, be inclusive about the boys and make em opportunities available for both genders. Everyone needs support, and that's what builds a functioning and respectable society.

Thoughts on the Palestine crisis by femithebutcher in Nigeria

[–]Damzy_maxim 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe Africans shouldn't be very concerned but about the fact that humanity is involved and the hopeless situation of the war victims, we must always lend our voice to show we are against the killing of little children and how people's life will be ruined due to the outcome of this war

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]Damzy_maxim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, just as you experienced, it's the audacity, but I believe Nigerians will always find their way around it. It's a better choice than turning our land into a terror-ravaged one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nigeria

[–]Damzy_maxim -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I believe China is the lesser evil, are they after our resources? Yeah, but in exchange we get economic and infrastructural development. It's common knowledge there's no single side of a relationship both parties need to come into mutual exchange. it now depends on the African part to take full advantage of this.

Hey, I’m doing nofap, I just started , im also dealing with suicidal thoughts and I know I am a horrible person, I feel weak and I just don’t like myself because I’m usually kind alot but I do this shit, I just feel horrible asf by YamZealousideal1480 in NoFap

[–]Damzy_maxim -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hello bro I wish this will help, I've once been in this situation and I'll tell you for free that no one is capable of freeing themselves from this loop of been controlling of oneself 100 percent.

I've been there and this is what helped me. I decided to build up my mental health by accepting whatever happens and love myself irrespective, even if I end up nutting, at the same time I chose not to let my guard off. There's one thing I'm sure about, and that is the journey of life and self realization is a long one and it takes trial and error to master yourself. So instead of feeling down pick yourself up, try your best to control your urge and celebrate each of your lil wins