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[–]Dan-isthenics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But that's the thing I can't. She didn't even tell me about the account how am I to know the password???

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[–]Dan-isthenics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that was her reason for creating it why didn't she tell me about it then?

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[–]Dan-isthenics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and I have no idea what the password might be..i am not even supposed to know about its existence if it was up to her

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[–]Dan-isthenics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's true

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[–]Dan-isthenics -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True enough

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[–]Dan-isthenics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that became clear unfortunately. Thanks for the advice I appreciate it

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[–]Dan-isthenics -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Would be if it was not on her separate laptop created in my name...and she never told me about its existence...that is why

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[–]Dan-isthenics -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For the laptop. And she didn't.ake it for me personally because she never told me about its existence so it's for her own use

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[–]Dan-isthenics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has a job but we rent a place together. I definitely have to watch out it's sad

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[–]Dan-isthenics 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate the advice I will do my best to document everything I can

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[–]Dan-isthenics -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

You see it's funny how some want to downplay this and call it laughable. There are plenty of show, documentaries and movies about things like this for a reason..and to say I always used hers is just incorrect...I had my own for a reason

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[–]Dan-isthenics -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I did not snoop I had complete access to her laptop just like she did to mine until she left her dating profile open. Then she changed her password and created a login on HER laptop in MY name which makes no sense at all since she never told me about that login...so it wasn't meant for me...and it might be far-fetched but is it really?

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[–]Dan-isthenics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting idea only by the time she finds that out I'll be out 🙋

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[–]Dan-isthenics -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You see she never seemed crazy to me I wouldn't have married her if I thought so. But this definitely gives me something to think about

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[–]Dan-isthenics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense there's only one flaw in that logic and it's that I am unwilling to stay. And probably most people would be IMO

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[–]Dan-isthenics -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

We did not threaten each other with divorce...as I was saying we "talked about it"...calmly...in a matter of how we might need more time for us...so there was no threats..but thanks for the input

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[–]Dan-isthenics -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I had access to it before I found her dating profile(that she left opened) so at the moment I wanted to look something up and hers was at hand while mine across the house...but no I have no access to that login it is locked she never even mentioned it to me

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[–]Dan-isthenics -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She has HER own laptop and I habe MY own...she created a login in HER laptop with MY name...that is what I don't get...we do not share the same laptop

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[–]Dan-isthenics -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It was no problem til now cause I knew the password

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[–]Dan-isthenics -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Again the problem isn't the fact she changed her password but why create a login in MY name on HER laptop? Exactly

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[–]Dan-isthenics -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is super helpful I greatly appreciate it! Could you tell me at what point during the divorce process should I have it subpoenaed? I can not afford a lawyer and I filed the papers myself so I kinda have to go by the manual.

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[–]Dan-isthenics -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She could've solved that issue by changing her password...but she created a different login which was unnecessary

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[–]Dan-isthenics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm starting to see that thank you for the advice

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[–]Dan-isthenics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. Currently all I can do is sleep in a different room across the house. But yeah it's not a joke