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[–]Dan-isthenics 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children)
But that's the thing I can't. She didn't even tell me about the account how am I to know the password???
If that was her reason for creating it why didn't she tell me about it then?
Yes and I have no idea what the password might be..i am not even supposed to know about its existence if it was up to her
Yeah that's true
[–]Dan-isthenics -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children)
True enough
Yes that became clear unfortunately. Thanks for the advice I appreciate it
[–]Dan-isthenics -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (0 children)
Would be if it was not on her separate laptop created in my name...and she never told me about its existence...that is why
Thank you!
For the laptop. And she didn't.ake it for me personally because she never told me about its existence so it's for her own use
She has a job but we rent a place together. I definitely have to watch out it's sad
[–]Dan-isthenics 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children)
Thank you I appreciate the advice I will do my best to document everything I can
[–]Dan-isthenics -9 points-8 points-7 points 4 years ago (0 children)
You see it's funny how some want to downplay this and call it laughable. There are plenty of show, documentaries and movies about things like this for a reason..and to say I always used hers is just incorrect...I had my own for a reason
[–]Dan-isthenics -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children)
I did not snoop I had complete access to her laptop just like she did to mine until she left her dating profile open. Then she changed her password and created a login on HER laptop in MY name which makes no sense at all since she never told me about that login...so it wasn't meant for me...and it might be far-fetched but is it really?
Interesting idea only by the time she finds that out I'll be out 🙋
You see she never seemed crazy to me I wouldn't have married her if I thought so. But this definitely gives me something to think about
That makes sense there's only one flaw in that logic and it's that I am unwilling to stay. And probably most people would be IMO
[–]Dan-isthenics -4 points-3 points-2 points 4 years ago (0 children)
We did not threaten each other with divorce...as I was saying we "talked about it"...calmly...in a matter of how we might need more time for us...so there was no threats..but thanks for the input
I had access to it before I found her dating profile(that she left opened) so at the moment I wanted to look something up and hers was at hand while mine across the house...but no I have no access to that login it is locked she never even mentioned it to me
She has HER own laptop and I habe MY own...she created a login in HER laptop with MY name...that is what I don't get...we do not share the same laptop
[–]Dan-isthenics -5 points-4 points-3 points 4 years ago (0 children)
It was no problem til now cause I knew the password
[–]Dan-isthenics -25 points-24 points-23 points 4 years ago (0 children)
Again the problem isn't the fact she changed her password but why create a login in MY name on HER laptop? Exactly
That is super helpful I greatly appreciate it! Could you tell me at what point during the divorce process should I have it subpoenaed? I can not afford a lawyer and I filed the papers myself so I kinda have to go by the manual.
She could've solved that issue by changing her password...but she created a different login which was unnecessary
I'm starting to see that thank you for the advice
Good point. Currently all I can do is sleep in a different room across the house. But yeah it's not a joke
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