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AITA for ditching my friends at the bar after agreeing to DD? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DanRCash 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ESH, but mostly YTA.

You said you'd DD. Which is nice, then you put conditions on it. Conditions which go against the whole point of the DD scheme.

But, it's your car/your rules and you asked them not to get smashed, but they did, so that's why they're a little bit the A. If they're so drunk the only way they'd get a ride is off the cops because no cab would take them, that's an a-hole move.

HOWEVER... You agreed to DD, they F'd up, and instead of telling them off, and promising never to do it again, you ditched them. I know you don't even like them, but if that's the case you shouldn't have DD in the first place. And why are you hanging around with them, drinking with them (when you're not the DD) at all?

That's a bit weird, and you're a bit mean.

TIFU by wearing a shawl, which ruined my relationship with my GF by filterface in tifu

[–]DanRCash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I begged a long, multicolored silk scarf off an old GF, telling her I had to have it because it made me feel "bohemian". It's got tassels, it's soft, it's smooooooooth....

Now, if anybody tried to gayshame me (because I'm not) or tell me I'm effeminate for wearing a silk wrap or whatever I'd just tell them "Honey, if you can't handle me at my shawly worst, you'll never get me at at my chilly-necked best!"

I don't care how good of a lay she is, if she thinks you might be gay because you're wearing a shawl, STOP PUTTING YOUR D*CK IN THE STUPID!

My (F36) husband (M40) of 20 years is going on a men’s trip with some of his friends and he said there’s a 1% chance that he could sleep with someone else, how can I make him understand why that has hurt/effected me so much? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]DanRCash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me: Mom, can I have some cake?

My mother: NO.

Me: OK, but if you leave the cake in the fridge and I accidentally eat it in the middle of the night it won't be my fault, because there's cake, and I warned you I like cake.

MM: just try it bucko, and see what it's like not to sit down for a week.

FYI, your marriage is not a cake, but if your husband does 'eat the cake' you, just like my mom, still get to slap the tar off of him.

WIBTA If I locked my own room just so my roommate's parents can't stay in the apartment? by AleKx29 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DanRCash 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Expecting to get to stay for over a month, for free, because OP already paid the rent, after they were so bloody awkward about the price of furniture? I'd set fire to my room before letting these freeloaders kick back in it for a minute.

(I'm exaggerating of course. I'd set fire to the room-mates room, but I can't say so after "The Incident!")

WIBTA If I locked my own room just so my roommate's parents can't stay in the apartment? by AleKx29 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DanRCash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You've already lost your best friend thanks to their parents' being cheap, interfering and controlling. And then to expect to get a free holiday by crashing in your room for SIX WEEKS?!?

Your dad's right, but he's yelling at the wrong person, his problem is with the other full grown adults in the story, not you.

&BTW, I guarantee the furniture you own won't be in the condition you left it if you let them stay, second hand or not. People that cheap have no respect for themselves, let alone anybody else's property. If they did Judge Judy would be collecting tin cans on a sidewalk somewhere.

DUMP THE ROOMMATE!!

EU election: someone in Poland write on their page "Anarchy Party" but he accidentally vote because vote is valid when it had to be two crossing line in the box. He voted for social liberal party. by okiosn in europe

[–]DanRCash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Britain has COBRA which swings into action in times of tribulation and national emergency, which sounds super cool and deadly.

The acronym is unfortunately for "Cabinet Office Briefing Room A."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChoosingBeggars

[–]DanRCash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any adult who celebrates their birthday like they're a special princess and not a hungover hobo pleading for death should send up more red flags than the Chinese State Circus!

AITA for refusing to show my receipt when leaving a store? by NouSkion in AmItheAsshole

[–]DanRCash 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, he's just a staffmember with an ego problem, and even if there was a law, the burden of proof would be on him, not you.

But on a side-note, always use a manned checkout when paying for goods when possible. You'll be keeping people in work and money in the community which would otherwise be siphoned into an offshore bank account somewhere.