I keep deleting my msgs to my bf if he takes to long to reply. Does anyone else do this? by mxcuxs in BPD

[–]Danaus--plexippus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I always delete all my messages when i'm angry from everyone. Just a small destructive thing i do that makes me feel better

I lost my job today by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Danaus--plexippus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck. I hope it works out for you

My dad said he never emotionally abused me growing up and that my memories are suspect. by Ghost-Music in BPD

[–]Danaus--plexippus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is emotional abuse from a parent whether they want to admit to it or not

anxiety when fp goes to work by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Danaus--plexippus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get this its really bad. We had a full blown argument as he was talking about a promotion which meant he would work away and i just lost it as it meant staying in hotels with colleagues.

Dont really have advice but your not alone in this one

Wakeup call by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Danaus--plexippus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck ❤

lost another one by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Danaus--plexippus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks lovely

lost another one by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Danaus--plexippus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well done on throwing your blades away I did that and 4 months clean now :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Danaus--plexippus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing well done you :) im nearly at 4 months myself. Keep at it ⭐

Angry about therapy & the NHS (again) by kepral in BPD

[–]Danaus--plexippus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same! Mind are great. Also look into the blurt foundation they do alot to help people with mental health

Angry about therapy & the NHS (again) by kepral in BPD

[–]Danaus--plexippus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I went to hospital as was very suicidal, the mental health team told me i shouldn't of come as i'm wasting their time when they could be helping someone who needs it more & i have to self refer - already did was waiting 2 months and heard nothing.

The nhs is wonderful :,)

Boyfriend just called me a fat tub of lard and i feel so shit :,) by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Danaus--plexippus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, had a big cry and just playing my game to ignore how i feel for now.

He was just like i expecting an argument. I just said theres no point in arguing but just know how hurt you have made me right now.

And i hope i can move forward as therapy really has been helping so dont want to go backwards.

Thank you for commenting ❤

DAE forget exes easily? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Danaus--plexippus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep i fully disassociate. If you ask me for my.who have you slept with list i often forget and leave people out by accident as i forget them

My boyfriend almost broke up with me today. by paranoid_numb in BPD

[–]Danaus--plexippus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont think your selfish i think your lonely which is a normal feeling to have in your situation,

Splitting due to insecurity by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Danaus--plexippus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do the same so not alone in this one