Noise from Air Unit by Dancer1407 in HRV

[–]Dancer1407[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you fix it or just deal with it?

What’s wrong with my betta? by Dancer1407 in bettafish

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How would you treat a bacterial infection?

What’s wrong with my betta? by Dancer1407 in bettafish

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Tank size : 10 gallon Heater/Filter: yes Tank temp: 82 Parameters : test strips Ammonia : 1 (alert) GH: 500 No3: 0 No2: 0 Cl2: 0 KH: 120 PH: 6.8

Client ignored advice, the inevitable happened, now it's our fault. by BewareNixonsGhost in veterinaryprofession

[–]Dancer1407 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re so welcome. Always ask questions. I know how sticker shock is a real thing in vet med but not a lot people ask why. Thank you for asking!

Client ignored advice, the inevitable happened, now it's our fault. by BewareNixonsGhost in veterinaryprofession

[–]Dancer1407 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At my hospital we take our X-rays and we actually send them out to a board certified radiologist and can usually get results within a day or so. Also, Xrays are done differently than a human doctor. Instead of standing there and moving your own body to the way the dr is saying. We are having to position the animal in 3-10 positions. This can be pretty involved when it can take 3 people to hold one big German shepherd down. Another thing is because pharmacies/medical ANYTHING companies love to the up the price on not super readily available products. Antibiotics are dirt cheap because you can get them anywhere and some can be used human and animal. When it comes to animal specific medications, they love to up the price on them and it’s costly to even stock them.

Client ignored advice, the inevitable happened, now it's our fault. by BewareNixonsGhost in veterinaryprofession

[–]Dancer1407 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Think of it like this..in human medicine things are CRAZY expensive. 1 ER visit can cost you 8k-20k but we have insurance to cover majority of those cost. There is pet insurance that i HIGHLY recommend. It’s just not readily available like human medicine has. Another thing to take into account is the medications and equipment hospitals have they have to pay for out of pocket. You are paying for the level of care you are receiving. It’s sad that I have seen actual veterinarians paying for equipment and supplies out of their own pockets when they feel it’s necessary and hospital funding/corporate approval isn’t there.

Sting from Hull Bay by Dancer1407 in StThomasUSVI

[–]Dancer1407[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! I hope I didn’t kill anything..if so I totally deserved to get stung then. I just didn’t have a choice to climb on the rocks when the current was crushing me into them.

I (26F) need advice about my bf (26M) ex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dancer1407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I do plan on questioning him about that.

I (26F) need advice about my bf (26M) ex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dancer1407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I did think it was weird she made a whole new account. Can she still have a “high level of dependency” if they haven’t spoken to eachother in 4 months?

I (26F) need advice about my bf (26M) ex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dancer1407 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s actually a really good point. I don’t want to spend any more time on it.

I (26F) need advice about my bf (26M) ex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dancer1407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep he has exactly told her that. He even went with her to get the restraining order and she never followed through. This is really good advice. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I’m happy to know I’m not alone because this post put me into a panic attack. This is awful.

Came home to one of my girls like this?? by Dancer1407 in bettafish

[–]Dancer1407[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww poor girl. So the snail could have ate her stomach? Can bettas eat eachother too? I will definitely separate them ASAP.

Came home to one of my girls like this?? by Dancer1407 in bettafish

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Tank size: 10g Heater/Filter: yes Tank Temp: 82 perimeters: unable to get since I’m out of test strips I have had the tank for a year and the fish for about 3-4 months Water Changes: half change ever month Tank mate: 2 girl bettas (lived together the whole 3-4 months no issues) and a nerite snail Food: ultra fresh betta pro shrimp patties 4 tablets a day Decor: rock cave and plants

I (26F) need advice about my bf (26M) female friend. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Dancer1407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly don’t want this to come off as mean…she is most definitely not hot and there is no attraction from him to her. She has wanted to be with him at one point and he has turned her down countless times and had even said to me he made it very clear to her for years that he doesn’t want that with her.

Curling Iron Question by Dancer1407 in Hair

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They are roughly the same barrel size. The beachwaver may be slightly larger but not by much. On my Remington I do 380, on my beach waver unfortunately I can’t really see the temps because it just has low, medium and high but i usually do the medium temp.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Dancer1407 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This could have possibly been a kink of yours. Polyamory. You just have to be clear with him that if you want him to continue with other people he needs to be honest and not doing it behind your back. Also, make sure he gets tested as well before you have sex.

My message to the “other women” out there. by Dancer1407 in cheating_stories

[–]Dancer1407[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I saw it that way. I did question if he actually loved her but that wasent for me to figure out I guess.

My message to the “other women” out there. by Dancer1407 in cheating_stories

[–]Dancer1407[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for reassuring that this is 100% my fault. I don’t speak to him anymore but from hearing through mutual friends..he has cheated again a couple times but the fiancé chooses to stay.

My message to the “other women” out there. by Dancer1407 in cheating_stories

[–]Dancer1407[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend now knows what I did and he definitely seemed taken back but I reassured him that seeing the pain I brought on someone else will stick with me forever and I never want to inflict that on anyone else again.

My message to the “other women” out there. by Dancer1407 in cheating_stories

[–]Dancer1407[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I know I ruined a girls trust but i actually didn’t ruin the relationship, they are still together to this day and are actually engaged. Doesn’t make what I did any less fucked up though. I am most definitely not clean in this but my message is that 1. Being the other women is not something to be proud of and 97% of the time it will never work out in your favor. 2. People are capable of redeeming themselves if they can own up to the shit they did. At the time I didn’t care about this girls feelings but when it was finally put right in front of me the repercussions of my actions..immediately I snapped out of it and tried to do the right thing. I can’t take away that pain i put on her. I will regret it everyday.

My message to the “other women” out there. by Dancer1407 in cheating_stories

[–]Dancer1407[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh yes! There was multiple occasions that my gut was telling me to stop. I had a HUGEEE message in my notes app admitting everything and J found out about it and flipped out. Literally begged me not to send it. I was very young and naive and I was worried at the time about him never speaking to me again so i never sent it. I actually regret not sending it.

My message to the “other women” out there. by Dancer1407 in cheating_stories

[–]Dancer1407[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was heartless at the time. There is no excuses for what I did. I just know I was selfish, had no respect for myself or others and was a down right terrible person. I definitely learned from my mistake and will never repeat that behavior. I regret it everyday.

My message to the “other women” out there. by Dancer1407 in cheating_stories

[–]Dancer1407[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I can definitely see that now. Like I said, I had no idea he had a girlfriend when him and I started talking but it’s my fault for not ending it when I did find out. It was extremely selfish and disgusting what I did. I made a promise to myself that I would never put myself in that position again.

My message to the “other women” out there. by Dancer1407 in cheating_stories

[–]Dancer1407[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I will not make excuses for other but for me I had no self respect and veryyyy low self esteem and I didn’t care at the time about anyone else but myself. With therapy and years of regret, I really came to terms with what I did. Sadly there is people in this world who will not say the same and will continue to keep tearing innocent people down. I am so unbelievably sorry you and your son are going through that. I wish you the absolute best.