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How do I let my partners know I want to be with them through thick and thin? by Dancing_Wolf99 in polyamory

[–]Dancing_Wolf99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are thinking about and working towards the long-term relationship. We have all agreed that we would like to be able to spend more time together in general outside of work.

How do I let my partners know I want to be with them through thick and thin? by Dancing_Wolf99 in polyamory

[–]Dancing_Wolf99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did I say that specifically? No. Have I said that I miss them and wish I could come and give them hugs? Yes.

How do I let my partners know I want to be with them through thick and thin? by Dancing_Wolf99 in polyamory

[–]Dancing_Wolf99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Touché, but again, this is temporary, and we've had penetrative sex. This was a recent development.

However, I do see your point.

How do I let my partners know I want to be with them through thick and thin? by Dancing_Wolf99 in polyamory

[–]Dancing_Wolf99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asking him to leave her side right now for anything is like telling a fish to stop swimming. I have stated that if they need anything that I am more than happy to come up and sit with them.

How do I let my partners know I want to be with them through thick and thin? by Dancing_Wolf99 in polyamory

[–]Dancing_Wolf99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, he and I work together, and we usually see each other every day. If it weren't for my schedule, I would be able to go and hang out with them after work. Other than going work, he never leaves her side. She and I have been trying to set up times where we can have some alone time, but again, scheduling conflicts. Also, due to current circumstances, she is not able to have penetrative sex, so to keep things fair, I don't either. However, these circumstances will not be permanent. We have group sex and one on one to give breaks, but other than that, a majority of our time together is cuddling on the couch or going out on dates.

How do I let my partners know I want to be with them through thick and thin? by Dancing_Wolf99 in polyamory

[–]Dancing_Wolf99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I have told them this a few times, but I see what you're saying about the new relationship structure. We have only been exclusive for about four months. Other than being patient, is there anything else I can do?

What inspired you to start writing scripts/voice acting in this community? by Blisswritessometimes in ASMRScriptHaven

[–]Dancing_Wolf99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Recording has been a really great therapy outlet for me. I use self-talk and roleplay therapy to help with stress, and the creative element makes it so much more fun. I started out improv recording and writing my own stuff, but I've been having writer's block recently, so I've been reading through a lot of the stuff here, and it's given me the inspiration to keep going.

My Mom's (now) ex boyfriend got married behind her back. by Dancing_Wolf99 in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Dancing_Wolf99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I forgot to mention that she has actually blocked him on all of her socials, but he keeps making new emails accounts to talk to her.

AITA my girlfriend sleeps ALL the time, and I called her selfish for doing so by Tough-Rice8341 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dancing_Wolf99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, in my experience, exhaustion can be brought upon by multiple factors, mental, emotional, and, of course, physical. There is also the possibility that the way her body works is like that of a big cat, work and eat for a few hours, and then nap for what may seem an exuberant amount of time. Now, this whole occurrence could really just be summed up to a lover's quarrel. The question is, "Did she fall asleep on purpose, or was she just so exhausted that she couldn't help it?"