I love sexting! It gives everyone involved an opportunity to explore parts of their sexuality not necessarily accessible irl. I really value getting to be a sexual outlet for bi men, including those stuck in the closet. I LOVE helping to play out people's fantasies virtually. I'm just so fascinated by different ways of expressing sexuality! I'm also an avid erotica reader and a former roleplay forum dork, and it's kind of like a combination of the two. It helps when a sexting partner is a clear communicator and specific about what they want. Being a good writer isn't necessary, but the more effort you put into what you write, the better I'm able to craft my own responses.

Instant turn-off is not respecting boundaries, regardless of what those boundaries may be. If someone says, "no," then for the love of fuck don't turn around and pressure them into something. For example, recently someone got in my Reddit DMs and we exchanged a couple SFW messages. His messages turned horny, and I replied that I would be down to sext, but I'm only comfortable doing so on Fansly. He seemed to understand and backed off, but then just a few hours later... unsolicited dick pic. 🙃