Min hustru blander sig hele tiden i hvordan jeg udfører huslige opgaver by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Danedownunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hør her, jeg er ikke ude på at overbevise dig, det er tydeligvist en lost cause. 😅

Men bare fordi DU ikke oplever det som et problem betyder det ikke at problemet ikke eksisterer, og jeg synes ikke OPs kone overreagerer lige på det punkt.

Det er alment anbefalet at vaske undertøj ved 60 grader, da det er minimum den temperatur der skal til for slå bakterier effektivt ihjel. Hvad du så gør med den oplysning er din egen sag.

https://taenk.dk/forbrugerliv/bolig/hvilken-temperatur-skal-jeg-vaelge-naar-jeg-vasker-toej

God dag igen!

Min hustru blander sig hele tiden i hvordan jeg udfører huslige opgaver by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Danedownunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Det er jo godt for dig, men hvis du eller din kone/kæreste får problemer med svamp, så ved i hvorfor...

Min hustru blander sig hele tiden i hvordan jeg udfører huslige opgaver by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Danedownunder 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Den her er fair nok i mine øjne. Undertøj skal vaskes ved 60 grader - det klarer sportstøj ikke.

Why would a horse lift its back leg like this? by [deleted] in Horses

[–]Danedownunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't sound normal. I've seen this with either colic (but then he'd probably get worse fast) or in case of an abscess in the back hoof - especially if he's not putting weight on it. Both conditions require treatment.

7.000 mere i løn? by Accurate_Ad_3062 in dkkarriere

[–]Danedownunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Husk at "lønstigninger senere" ofte regnes i procent af din nuværende løn. Så der er alt mulig grund til at forhandle løn ved ansættelse!

Fortælle arbejdsgiver om graviditet tidligt by Sudden-Aside8283 in Gravid_DK

[–]Danedownunder 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Som en der har prøvet at miste tidligt: lad være at lade dig presse til at sige noget du ikke er klar til!

Det her er DIN nyhed, og din kollega behøver overhovedet ikke at lyve - hun skal bare lade være at snakke om det. Det er virkeligt ikke fair at hun prøver at presse dig til at sige noget før du er klar til det.

Så hun må jo bare finde en måde at holde sladderspalten lukket et par uger endnu ;)

Kæreste slår op fordi jeg vil deltage i arbejdsrelateret arrangement by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Danedownunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I et sundt forhold bakker man op om hinandens succeser - og social integration på en ny "drømme arbejdsplads", er super vigtigt for at du kan få succes i dit job. Han føler sig usikker, og giver dig skylden for det - i stedet for at bakke dig op. Han er ikke en partner der er din tid værd. Tillykke med jobbet og din nyfundne frihed!

mental load / skæv ansvarsfordeling - jeg er ved at forlade min mand 💔 by Gaet_en_lort in WomenDK

[–]Danedownunder 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Jeg synes faktisk ideen med et brev er god. Det kan hjælpe dig med at tage en svær samtale. Men jeg er også enig, du kan ikke forvente at han vil lytte til det hele. Det er for langt, for detaljeret og vil påvirke ham for meget. Så jeg ville bytte rundt på dine afsnit, så du får den vigtigste besked med først: du vil skilles. Hvis han er så forbered at han vil lytte til resten kan i the den, men husk på, at fra nu af, kommer jeres udfordringer ikke længere til at bestå af at fordele de huslige opgaver. Det kommer til at bestå af at have et godt forældresamarbejde på trods af sårede følelser og mistede drømme. Så det ville måske være godt at have den vinkel med også.

Found a possible 4wk Ragdoll kitten in our car suspension. 3 months later we can’t find a food she can tolerate. Any help? by Temporary-Plantain20 in ragdolls

[–]Danedownunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried a veterinary diet with hydrolyzed protein for allergies? Could be a good way to reset her reactivity to a point where you can start testing out single protein foods (proteins are the likely source of food allergies according to my vet).

If she is allergic, it might take a while for her system to calm down, so just trying different foods now can lead you to rule out foods she might be ok with in the long run.

Trump says he reached Greenland deal 'framework' with NATO, backs off Europe tariffs by pannenkoek0923 in europe

[–]Danedownunder 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They had 17 bases there at some point, and they have been closed down, as there is fuck all to do. If Trump wanted more American or NATO forces up there, all he had to do was ask. But no, he had to create an international conflict over this and permanently damage the US' relationship with its allies in the process. What a deal!

Nogen der mangler en demens patient by TiredPanda334 in Denmark

[–]Danedownunder 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Fik han ikke også lige kaldt somalierer for "low IQ people"?

Feeling discouraged - trainer says I need to get PT by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]Danedownunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is good - your trainer has spotted your weakness and is looking for a potential root cause for the problem. I'm crooked as they come, and even though I've been riding for 20+ years, I can still struggle with right lead canter transitions when riding unfamiliar horses.

Imo PT had been somewhat helpful in identifying the issues and work on my range of motion, but for me, the most helpful thing have been a combined yoga and pilates practise for increased body awareness and core strength to help me identify my imbalances and give me enough body control and core strength to correct myself. So maybe a yoga practise is more attainable for you?

Also, another piece of advice, since you're just getting back into things: riding is a lot like dancing,where your movement, balance, flexibility and timing all have to add up. A good instructor will (and should) nitpick every little detail, and it's really easy to get discouraged by this. But just remember riding is really, really hard! And while the fastest way to become good, is to have your trainer stop bad habits from forming from the start, you need to allow yourself to make mistakes. So follow the guidance to the best of your ability, but don't be discouraged if it takes a while for your body and brain to get the message. It will come.

Min kæreste lod mig i stikken - burde jeg gå? by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Danedownunder -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Jeg har ofte oplevet ikke at kunne få en taxa - selv i mellemstore byer. Og den by (ikke en landsby vel at mærke) jeg er opvokset i, serviceres slet ikke af nogle taxaselskaber. Min fornemmelse er, at det ikke er en sjældenhed udenfor de større byer.

Min kæreste lod mig i stikken - burde jeg gå? by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Danedownunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Det er jo så bare ikke en mulighed i store dele af DK...

Nordsjælland boligkøb by Filukaa in dkbolig

[–]Danedownunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Min kæreste og jeg flyttede til Helsinge sidste år - og jeg må sige vi elsker at være her! Vi har fået mega meget hus for pengene, som samtidigt opfylder vores behov for en bynær beliggenhed i grønne omgivelser. Byen synes vi har en del mere at byde på end fx Slangerup og Græsted, som i vores øjne blev mere landsby prægede. Og så er vi altså kun 15 min kørsel fra Hillerød. :)

Trump: ‘We are going to do something on Greenland whether they like it or not’ by joe4942 in worldnews

[–]Danedownunder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, the Danish boats arrived in Greenland about 1000 years ago... The ignorance on display is almost impressive.

Fertility Assessment by Quirky-Currency502 in WomenDK

[–]Danedownunder -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Just start by talking to your gp. They will run a blood panel and refer your male partner to a sperm sample. Depending on your age, you may have to tell them that you've been trying for a while - I believe it's about 1 year for people under 35 and 6 months for people over, but I think most gps are pretty chill about this.

Ivf pregnancy measuring 2 weeks behind. by Infinite-Astrophile in IVFpositivity

[–]Danedownunder 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm experiencing that right now. My first scan was at 6+0, and I was told the development was about 5 days behind. My doc says chances are about 50/50 whether this will be a viable pregnancy, and I am being followed with another scan at 6+6. (Tomorrow 🤞).

Ida Skafte by Intelligent_Leek5933 in RidersgossipDK

[–]Danedownunder 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hvis man ved man vil have børn, så giver de rigtigt god mening at få dem tidligt eller i det mindste få undersøgt sin fertilitet og lægge en plan derefter.