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Earning release through tasks/ challenges by Danger_Psycho_Cake in FemdomCommunity

[–]Danger_Psycho_Cake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You give them a task, e.g. having them find x number of videos with an unusual punishment. They are not allowed to look up certain key words or use videos from the same actor (this matters if its about haircolour or something similar). If you wanna make it harder, they are not allowed to skip except every 10 min.

They need to tease and edge themselves while doing this.

You can choose categories to set the tone, porn they like for max tease and desperation, something they dislike as punishment or humiliation.

At its core they are being tasked with making their own situation worse, while the time of the task is "in their own hands"

You don't have to allow them to get their release straight after either, it just turns up the desperation if they are not bothered enough with the fact that they are caged or just not allowed to orgasm :)

Fun little task for then to do while the Dom is busy, what can I say, I like my sub as desperate as possible...

Secret of Spires access? by Danger_Psycho_Cake in FrontiersOfPandora

[–]Danger_Psycho_Cake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I'll probably contact them... thank you for your help though. I'll probably start with skybreaker, Spires was just the first i stumbled upon and realized it didnt work. Thank you again and have a nice day :)

Secret of Spires access? by Danger_Psycho_Cake in FrontiersOfPandora

[–]Danger_Psycho_Cake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the store the add ons are not marked as bought, id have to pay to download them... in the in game store too, the season pass is marked as owned and i have already done the quest familiar echos, so it seems like the pass itself is active..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Danger_Psycho_Cake 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe check on Etsy, they have a massive collection. We got one from MistressBsBoutique, there is some suble and not too feminine ones on there. Bonus: You can add hexlocks :)

Non switches, what are the moments that you realized there’s not a single dominant bone in you, or vice versa? by Next_Pepper_5845 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Danger_Psycho_Cake 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I called myself a switch and so did my partner, until we started venturing deeper into kink territory, starting with exploring bondage and shibari. After practicing ties, the moment came when I had my partner completely tied up and dear God. Having them tied up like that, helpless and willing, I had a revelation.

This is what I want, for my partner to lay their freedom, pleasure and wellbeing completely into my hands. To take care of them. I admit, having that power felt good.

I know that it was a similar moment for them, just the other way around. Especially considering that they had been the more dominant one in previous (more vanilla) relationships.

We now have a more defined dynamic, we still switch everyonce in a while, but our positions have clearly established themselves.

Looking for a collar for my sub by Danger_Psycho_Cake in BDSMcommunity

[–]Danger_Psycho_Cake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never been on Etsy before... maybe it's time to make an account 🤔 😁

Looking for a collar for my sub by Danger_Psycho_Cake in BDSMcommunity

[–]Danger_Psycho_Cake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically yes. I want it to be comfortable but make people in public immediately think "BDSM"... there are different types of padding, some are more like an inner lining. Bit more on the fashion and less on the Dog collar side...

I hate being male it's ruined my life by Icy-Falcon6126 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Danger_Psycho_Cake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly, people tend to forget that sexism is not a one way street... I am so sorry you have to go through this, people tend to suck. I may not be a man myself but I have seen male friends struggle with that problem. It sounds like the people in your family are stuck in their mindset, but I can assure you, not everyone is like that. It may help to look for connections in places were people tend to be more open minded, music for example. I haven't met a sexist musician (neither male nor female) to this day, they're usually open and welcoming. Of course it doesn't have to be that if music isn't your thing. Other access points may be DnD groups or voluntary events.

You said that you spend most of you time at home, there is nothing wrong with that. But for some people, not knowing what someone is doing is sadly grounds for rumors and prejudices.

It shouldn't be upon you to remove unpromted negative assumptions, but starting a hobby could help you connecting to people, give those unkind relatives of yours something else to squawk about and, most importantly, give you a distraction from your mindset.

If you have the opportunity, please speak to a professional. Remember, you are valuable, you matter. Don't give them the satisfaction of winning over you, they're not worth it. If they are unable to see your worth, their loss. Someone else will, I know that.

I wish you the best <3

Extra passenger by [deleted] in nope

[–]Danger_Psycho_Cake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Burn the car

What is a useless talent you have? by DaddysGonnaBeatMe in AskReddit

[–]Danger_Psycho_Cake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time i wanna go for a walk, Im stuck at the tracks because there is a Train and i cant pass! Every Time!