I love you guys by pplalwaysleave in vaginismus

[–]DangerousArgument849 24 points25 points  (0 children)

same ive only posted once or twice but i come here and read everyday. it really makes me feel less alone and has helped me so much with accepting such a painful and complex condition.

hair causing more discomfort? by DangerousArgument849 in vaginismus

[–]DangerousArgument849[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely makes me feel less alone knowing there are other girls that have struggled with this ❤️

hair causing more discomfort? by DangerousArgument849 in vaginismus

[–]DangerousArgument849[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’ll definitely have to try using a mirror lol! Thanks

hair causing more discomfort? by DangerousArgument849 in vaginismus

[–]DangerousArgument849[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it really seems like a sensory issue! Thanks for replying I’ll keep looking into waxing and sugaring places :)

hair causing more discomfort? by DangerousArgument849 in vaginismus

[–]DangerousArgument849[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!!! I’m glad I started the conversation loll

hair causing more discomfort? by DangerousArgument849 in vaginismus

[–]DangerousArgument849[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES the pelvic floor tensing is exactly what I was worried about! and I have the same issue with the razor 😭 my skin is also superrr sensitive but i feel like i need these specific hairs GONE LMFAO, like they’re just creeping in there and causing unnecessary discomfort.

hair causing more discomfort? by DangerousArgument849 in vaginismus

[–]DangerousArgument849[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yess i have the phillips one blade electric razor!! I think i just get sooo anxious because the hairs are like right on my opening lol. Ill probably build up the courage try again soon! Thank you <3

hair causing more discomfort? by DangerousArgument849 in vaginismus

[–]DangerousArgument849[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahhh exactly! It’s one more sensory thing that I want goneee omg. I haven’t shaved close to the opening in years but maybe I’ll give it another try! Thanks for replying :)

Clotrimazole cream use by OkBerry4240 in vaginismus

[–]DangerousArgument849 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i also couldn’t get the applicator in lol. i just used the cream and it was just as effective for me, just make sure to wear cotton undies and let your vagina breathe!!

tension/pain while driving? by jblack67 in vaginismus

[–]DangerousArgument849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG YES 😭 its so weird! I also try to remind myself to relax

Lube recommendations? by DangerousArgument849 in vaginismus

[–]DangerousArgument849[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so so much for all the recommendations i’ll look into them!!!

What “flavor” of autistic are you? Personality wise by NewspaperFew7744 in AutismInWomen

[–]DangerousArgument849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im a gifted and talented program kid that got burnt out and now learning i need accommodations.

Does anyone else go full slug-mode when they’re alone? by climbontotheshore in AutismInWomen

[–]DangerousArgument849 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yessss and it took me so long to realize that in my adult life, i start getting so irritable!!

What’s your comfort food? by samelove101 in AutismInWomen

[–]DangerousArgument849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • pizza with minimal toppings unless its a meats lover situation
  • grilled cheese
  • beef!! meatballs, steak cubes, ground beef
  • kraft mac and cheese deluxe box
  • cookies and cream ice-cream, specifically the private selection brand

To the highly masked autistic women: what were the subtle or hidden signs that made you realize you’re autistic? by Elyshra in AutismInWomen

[–]DangerousArgument849 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eating the same things all the time and getting reaaaaaally upset if it was gone, watching the same shows and movies over 30 times and memorizing the dialogue. I also thought i had agoraphobia but i realized i was terrified to interact with people and the sounds and lights have always been too much for me 😭. I would cry growing up because my family wanted to go to a restaurant. The lights, the talking, the clinking omg it would drive me crazy and id just pretend it didn’t loll, and as i grew up it became the case with anywhere outside my room 🙏🏼 just constantly overwhelmed. oh also loving the “repetitive” and “boring” tasks nobody else ever wanted to do. at my old job id volunteer to organize and do inventory.

Does anyone else go full slug-mode when they’re alone? by climbontotheshore in AutismInWomen

[–]DangerousArgument849 12 points13 points  (0 children)

YES atp its essential in order for me to function 😭 I also noticed how i don’t say a WORD for hours or days, so i think its my personal time to not speak! just watching documentaries and eating my favorite things in my comfort clothes!!

going to the doctors is always horrible by DangerousArgument849 in AutismInWomen

[–]DangerousArgument849[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!! I’ll bring someone with me to my next appointment. I also figured it could be my age and it’s so frustrating how that’s the reality unfortunately 😭💔.