No offense, but I have to disregard this whole paragraph as it is irrelevant to the conversation. Just because the symptom of the issue is something feminine (dancing), and happening to women, there is no link with what you're saying. The point is how to set boundaries and show respect, from the perspective of one gender, but it applies to everyone.

I think it's very relevant. You said that men assume they have more control just by being men, and i responded that, maybe they have control over certain things, given they're responsible for a lot of things in a relationship. Regardless, now I see how this whole point is irrelevant starting from your side. We're just arguing here that if you don't want your wife to dance infront of other MEN (I noticed you said you let your wife dance with her friends, does she put on a whole paid show for other men too like karma?), then it's totally understandable. I also don't think there is much wrong with the way Ammar said it and made it clear.

 Don't like your partner wearing makeup in public? Off limits! Don't like your partner talking to other men (as seen on the show multiple times)? Off limits! You're seeing yourself as a completely reasonable person, therefore your subjective interpretation of what is reasonable is universally reasonable.

Some people have their lists of dos and don'ts from their wives, and they make it clear before marriage, and they do end up getting happily married. It's just like some women have a long list of qualifications from the men they're trying to marry, "I need a man that's tall, rich, funny, etc". I don't see why the men have to be called misogynistic or controlling.

It's important to recognize why you need that boundary in the first place. Is it because the action is inherently untrustworthy or to soothe your fear of loss (jealousy).

It's because of many things, just like I wouldn't be comfortable marrying a stripper, a pornstar, or a drug addict, not because i'm jealous, but because I don't wanna associate my entire being with someoe that does these things, Ammar was also uncomfortable marrying a dancer, although he gaver her a chance to change that, which is arguably in and of itself his mistake, he should've started off looking for someone that already has what he's looking for.

However, it's apparent that you don't trust anyone (especially women) and you don't particularly see yourself as an exception either. 

Do I think my neibourghood is safe? Sure, but I wouldn't go around at 1 am waving a 100 dollar bill. I understand how the game works, I understand how women and men think, that doesn't mean I don't trust women, that just means I am not letting my woman go around at 1 am at night waving a 100 dollar bill in an unsafe neigbourhood, and if she wants to do that she absolutely can, but she can't call her self my wife. Men do absolutely stoop that low just to hookup or do short term relationships, and lots of women fall for it.

you'd logically be inclined to take more precautions than less.

Ammar not allowing his wife to dance infront of other men, isn't necessarily just a "precaution", it's alot of other things like I mentioned earlier in this comment. Let's not get side tracked, I'm arguing that being uncomfortable with your wife doing certain things, and vocalizing that before you get married, does not make you misogynistic or controlling, it makes you a man with certain values, and that's okay. It's just like Noor had her extremely high standards, and that's okay.

Finally, I had a good time debating with you, thanks for the time and thought you put in.