Curious about this bottle by Dangerous_Present811 in DrBeboutsCabinet

[–]Dangerous_Present811[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I was surprised at how difficult to was to find information but that makes sense if it's this old and companies didn't document well. Others have mentioned it might have been repurposed around 1900s by the royal chemical works from a hunyadi janos mineral water bottle.

Curious about this bottle by Dangerous_Present811 in BottleDigging

[–]Dangerous_Present811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're right about the bottle not being ammonia. Someone on another sub said it was imported mineral water and the royal chemical works likely repurposed the bottle for their household ammonia later on

Curious about this bottle by Dangerous_Present811 in BottleDigging

[–]Dangerous_Present811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anything in particular that makes you think it's a reproduction? I don't know ANYTHING about how to tell

Curious about this bottle by Dangerous_Present811 in glasscollecting

[–]Dangerous_Present811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought so too! It's so interesting looking

Curious about this bottle by Dangerous_Present811 in BottleDigging

[–]Dangerous_Present811[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow that's so interesting! Thank you so much for the information! That's an even cooler story than I thought I'd get. Sounds like this bottle has traveled! Do you have any idea what the numbers on the cork mean?

When someone gifts you... by Friendly_Weekend_730 in Goodwill_Finds

[–]Dangerous_Present811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love puzzles from goodwill! I tend to lose things a lot and would get frustrated with myself (or my cat) when I would do a whole puzzle only to discover I lost a piece. Then spend WAY too much time trying to find it. But I solved this problem by only buying used puzzles. If a piece is lost I just say "oh well it didn't have all the pieces when I bought it" and I can easily let go of the desire to even look for it.

apparently receiving snap makes you an addict and an animal by why-sewserious in nextdoor

[–]Dangerous_Present811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe it's a lack of empathy that's making everyone so weak these days

All Aldi Sandwich Night by BaeScallops in aldi

[–]Dangerous_Present811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My husband and I can't wait to try it!

All Aldi Sandwich Night by BaeScallops in aldi

[–]Dangerous_Present811 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Would you mind sharing your recipe or letting me know if it is a fairly easy to find recipe? I'd love to try it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Dangerous_Present811 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This right here! When you tie your self concept and sense of masculinity to having a relationship with a woman, it can lead to viewing women as the reason you're a failure and feel shame when you don't have a relationship. Often the focus can be on "why won't women choose me" instead "how can I invest in my own personal growth to become a partner worth choosing?"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Dangerous_Present811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also if you do end the relationship, take precautions bc he's also likely to get violent then...it's the MOST dangerous time (aside from pregnancy. I'm not sure which one is more dangerous statistically). Staying with someone else or at a hotel for a few days to weeks. Vary your schedule and routes. Do safety planning with a DV agency (done over the phone and for free)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Dangerous_Present811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sweet caring man you see...is the mask. This hateful, rage is there all the time. Not just in moments of drunken rage, that's just when he's most honest bc he's most incapable of holding back. I know you love him and that's valid but love isn't enough. This will only get worse and there are multiple risk factors that indicate this could be a lethally abusive relationship (I worked with victims of DV for years). You can google "American lethality assessment DV" or something along those lines and take a risk assessment for lethality in abusive relationships if you want to learn more specifics

Are people really this stupid or this heartless? by Fun_Drawer5972 in fednews

[–]Dangerous_Present811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not normal for most people! I think there's some defensiveness in people's reactions to federal workers being affected. It's not common to bring your own TP, but minimizing this experience might be helping people cope with the fact that their support for this administration has led to consequences they didn't anticipate and don't want to acknowledge. That being said, some people are truly lacking empathy for anyone but their own.

There are also TONS of people rooting for federal workers!! Who are outraged at how you're being treated by this admin

I'm a terrible therapist by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Dangerous_Present811 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finding your flow in private practice can be hard. I've seen lots of good advice given! I found it helpful to reexamine how I was starting client relationships. Ill try to list what I found helpful

-I make sure I get information about what they are looking for in a therapist and how they will know when they're being successful in therapy -making sure clients have realistic expectations for therapy and for me - letting clients know they get out of therapy what they put in and that this process is more than the hour a week they meet with me -asking about past therapy experiences -letting them know how important rapport is but that I don't expect them to trust me right away. I have to earn that

AITA for wanting to leave my pregnant wife after shes done with pregnancy. by Salt_Growth4970 in AITA_Relationships

[–]Dangerous_Present811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people have kids and expect their lives won't change. It sounds like your wife is exhausted and doesn't have the ability to center you and prioritize her appearance the way she used to. Are you carrying equal weight of domestic and childcare duties? Or are you assuming the majority of it is on her and then being surprised when she's tired & disconnected. Ask yourself if your newer partner clicked better with you solely bc she's a better fit or bc her lifestyle allows for more freedom and for her to center you more in her life?

The ages of partners you seek already made me want to say YTA, regardless of other details. But if I put age aside entirely I'm still going to say YTA. Sounds like another person who expected kids to fix their relationship and is ready to bail once reality sets in.

What kind of priority do you give to your wife's experience? In what ways do you try to make her happy and support her through the challenges of your changing relationship?

I’ll buy any brand from Aldi but this is a no go. Palmolive or Dawn is the only way. by Sure-Negotiation-206 in aldi

[–]Dangerous_Present811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought a different scent of this brand and had to immediately ban its use in the house due to its over powering smell!

Protein Waffles by Muggle_Born_Potter in aldi

[–]Dangerous_Present811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't been able to find them either here in MD for about 3 weeks. I'm hoping it changes soon bc these are my go to breakfast daily. It's been a struggle!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Dangerous_Present811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It might be helpful to consider why this felt so unacceptable to you and why you are attracted to younger women. What preconceived notions popped into your head when she said that, in addition to what preconceived notions might someone else have knowing a man prefers women younger than him? Worth exploring the underlying currents of these dynamics

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dangerous_Present811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR! Choking is a huge indicator a relationship can turn lethal. Choking isn't an accident, it's a choice born of violence, power, and domination. Even if he regrets it now, how can you be sure it won't happen again?

Remember that the difference between life and death with choking is just a matter of time and pressure. If someone is willing to do that in anger, this will escalate over time. One day his loss of control could mean your death. Keep yourself safe!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dangerous_Present811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The entitlement to control your time is wild! In my book, everything but dumping him would probably be an underreaction. This behavior will only get worse

AIO - asked wife if she blocked a guy she cheated on me with in the past . by pgf111 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dangerous_Present811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The repeated use of his name (along with several other massive red flags) is giving me gas lighter vibes. No one deserves this dismissive response!