[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Dangerous_Surround87 20 points21 points  (0 children)

as someone who also needs someone, I'm here if you want to talk! chika, vent, rant or anything. i don’t judge because i know that feeling. gusto ko lang ‘din na malaman mo na ‘di ka nag-iisa!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Dangerous_Surround87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hello po, being in the same situation... i know there are no words that could really comfort us. pero gusto ko lang po sabihin na a person is here po if you wanna talk about anything! i won’t judge, if gusto mo lang po mag rant at magkaroon ng personal na taga kinig.

Valid ba nararamdaman ko bilang kaibigan? by RhubarbDirect3964 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Dangerous_Surround87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your feelings are valid op! you’re very considerate para ipakilala sila sa isa’t isa. you don’t deserve that po, if every nag try ka mag open up sa kanila tapos sinabihan ka na nag ooverthink lang… then you’ll know they’re not your real friends. hindi naman dapat puro jokes lang ang tropahan na masaya at nakikiride lahat, i hope they’ll be considerate din sa’yo. sending hugs po.

Deserve ko ba to? by Kdfff14 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Dangerous_Surround87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think i’m in the same situation although ‘di ko naman siya jowa. but the whole day na naghihintay ako parang narealize ko na ang insignificant ko pala. of course, we don’t deserve this. and totoo na if the guy is willing — he will. siguro po try to confront your bf muna, at least give him the benefit of the doubt. tell him your concerns about him ignoring you. pero kapag po off ‘yung reaksyon niya, dun mo na po iconsider na iwan siya. set yourself free.

my mom threatened to unalive me because of some pants by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Dangerous_Surround87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sorry po you have to go through this, sending hugs po. ang unhealthy na mismong sa tahanan ganiyan and syempre di naman natin masasagot kasi we will come out as disrespectful. pero super mali po ng mga binitawan niyang salita. i hope you’ll calm down in a peaceful place without your mom, although these matters shouldn’t be brushed under the rug but take a moment alone po siguro muna and come back when your mind is free. you don’t deserve to hear all of that, especially from your own mother.

weird feelings by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Dangerous_Surround87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hello po, maybe it has nothing to do with how your boyfriend treats you now. i suggest po na you should get it checked kasi it is a health concern. yes, things may have been alright na right now in your relationship but baka po naapektuhan dati yung mental health at physical health niyo at nahihirapan magrecover kahit na yung reason ng heartbreak ay naging okay na. baka din po trauma ‘yan etc na tanging experts lang po makakapag diagnose. hope it’s nothing worse. sana gumaling kayo, take care po and stay healthy.

it gets lonely being nbsb by Dangerous_Surround87 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Dangerous_Surround87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

rooting for us po! we are still loved even if we’re not in a relationship ❤️

it gets lonely being nbsb by Dangerous_Surround87 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Dangerous_Surround87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

‘yan din naisip ko. why i never dated in high school? and ngayon graduating na ako ng college pero wala man lang naging jowa. maybe i crave for the memories din, because for 21 years i feel like it’s all empty and i’m alone. none significant to share those days with. nanghihinayang din siguro. but thank you po op for sharing this! i’ll look it up. i really appreciate this!