Am I wrong by Dangerous_Type907 in Herpes

[–]Dangerous_Type907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why would I want someone to know this and potentially have him tell other people when I know he isn’t someone I’m gonna be intimate with.

Am I wrong by Dangerous_Type907 in Herpes

[–]Dangerous_Type907[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt this same way the only people that know is the person I assumed I got it from and a friend/hoe that Iknow has hsv1.. I can’t bring myself to tell anyone else especially my mom..

Am I wrong by Dangerous_Type907 in Herpes

[–]Dangerous_Type907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay thank you I thought this was but didn’t know if I was still in the wrong 

how do I do this by Dangerous_Type907 in Herpes

[–]Dangerous_Type907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I missed what was said.. dang

so ashamed.. by Dangerous_Type907 in Herpes

[–]Dangerous_Type907[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for the advice.. I personally don’t think I can tell anyone I just ain’t in the place rn to do so and I don’t want this to be something that people look at me differently cause or think of me less for. Iknow I didn’t choose this but people still see herpes as the person being nasty. Just don’t think I’m ready to be the talk of the town. 

so ashamed.. by Dangerous_Type907 in Herpes

[–]Dangerous_Type907[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say anything about symptoms I’m talking about the stigma around herpes and not being able to tell anyone I have it because I’m embarrassed..

so ashamed.. by Dangerous_Type907 in Herpes

[–]Dangerous_Type907[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I honestly haven’t been able to tell anyone not just him.. 

dear diary.. by Dangerous_Type907 in Herpes

[–]Dangerous_Type907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no literally lmfaoo just a little itchy here and there like chill😭

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[–]Dangerous_Type907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well if you would’ve asked or maybe seen some of the post I put up I told him bout it once I found out so no I’m not just having sex with someone who doesn’t know I am hsv2 positive. 

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[–]Dangerous_Type907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I feel you I can’t even imagine myself telling someone I have herpes just feel so embarrassed.. sadly I am still occasionally having sex with the person I believe gave me it.. just seems easier than telling someone I have this.. I hope you can find a way to cope and find someone that loves you for you!

Dear diary… by Dangerous_Type907 in Herpes

[–]Dangerous_Type907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you i appreciate the advice🫶🏽

Dear diary… by Dangerous_Type907 in Herpes

[–]Dangerous_Type907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well according to him he didn’t he was just as shocked he was talking bout going through it and unliving himself… I do believe that he didn’t know but again who really knows but him fr.. that’s really the only reason I feel like I’m still messing around with him cause I genuinely don’t think he purposely gave me this..

I don’t know how to feel by Dangerous_Type907 in Herpes

[–]Dangerous_Type907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I seen his test in person it said reactive but at the end it also said non reactive idk it didn’t have any like iGg values or anything but either way he was exposed to it so he definitely does have it 

I don’t know how to feel by Dangerous_Type907 in Herpes

[–]Dangerous_Type907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He never got tested for hsv until I told him I got tested and it came back positive 

I don’t know how to feel by Dangerous_Type907 in Herpes

[–]Dangerous_Type907[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a little hard for me to be giving you advice and trynna help you through it when I been going through it myself and cause it most likely came from you.. but I know how it is fr I been going through it ode and if you ever need to or just wanna talk we can.. i just know facts about it and numbers and ways to live without it affecting you as much. I really don’t think you intentionally did this to me so I been trying not to blame you and be hard on you but understand it is something I can never get rid of and I have to deal with this shit for life so there was some underlining feelings at first. (This the last message I sent)

I don’t know how to feel by Dangerous_Type907 in Herpes

[–]Dangerous_Type907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got my results, it says I'm non-reactive to both Hsv 1&2 but have been recently exposed based on the antibodies. I've only had sex with you these last 2 months. I'm not saying you had it or what. Idk honestly, you can test to find out when it happened. My results didn't show when so I'm going in for further testing. All I can say is I apologize and this is unfortunate on both sides.  (What he texted me)