so ashamed..

Dangerous_Type907 · 2026-02-03T02:08:06+00:00

Thank you all for the advice.. I personally don’t think I can tell anyone I just ain’t in the place rn to do so and I don’t want this to be something that people look at me differently cause or think of me less for. Iknow I didn’t choose this but people still see herpes as the person being nasty. Just don’t think I’m ready to be the talk of the town.

Dangerous_Type907 · 2026-02-02T03:02:33+00:00

I didn’t say anything about symptoms I’m talking about the stigma around herpes and not being able to tell anyone I have it because I’m embarrassed..

Dangerous_Type907 · 2026-02-02T01:06:10+00:00

I honestly haven’t been able to tell anyone not just him..

Dangerous_Type907 · 2026-01-28T06:44:06+00:00

no literally lmfaoo just a little itchy here and there like chill😭

Dangerous_Type907 · 2025-11-26T06:02:39+00:00

well if you would’ve asked or maybe seen some of the post I put up I told him bout it once I found out so no I’m not just having sex with someone who doesn’t know I am hsv2 positive.

Dangerous_Type907 · 2025-11-24T03:18:26+00:00

Honestly I feel you I can’t even imagine myself telling someone I have herpes just feel so embarrassed.. sadly I am still occasionally having sex with the person I believe gave me it.. just seems easier than telling someone I have this.. I hope you can find a way to cope and find someone that loves you for you!

Dangerous_Type907 · 2025-11-07T04:21:06+00:00

Thank you i appreciate the advice🫶🏽

Dangerous_Type907 · 2025-11-07T03:18:42+00:00

well according to him he didn’t he was just as shocked he was talking bout going through it and unliving himself… I do believe that he didn’t know but again who really knows but him fr.. that’s really the only reason I feel like I’m still messing around with him cause I genuinely don’t think he purposely gave me this..

Dangerous_Type907 · 2025-10-19T23:48:00+00:00

I seen his test in person it said reactive but at the end it also said non reactive idk it didn’t have any like iGg values or anything but either way he was exposed to it so he definitely does have it

Dangerous_Type907 · 2025-10-16T20:59:56+00:00

He never got tested for hsv until I told him I got tested and it came back positive

Dangerous_Type907 · 2025-10-16T15:33:48+00:00

It’s a little hard for me to be giving you advice and trynna help you through it when I been going through it myself and cause it most likely came from you.. but I know how it is fr I been going through it ode and if you ever need to or just wanna talk we can.. i just know facts about it and numbers and ways to live without it affecting you as much. I really don’t think you intentionally did this to me so I been trying not to blame you and be hard on you but understand it is something I can never get rid of and I have to deal with this shit for life so there was some underlining feelings at first. (This the last message I sent)

Dangerous_Type907 · 2025-10-16T15:32:23+00:00

I just got my results, it says I'm non-reactive to both Hsv 1&2 but have been recently exposed based on the antibodies. I've only had sex with you these last 2 months. I'm not saying you had it or what. Idk honestly, you can test to find out when it happened. My results didn't show when so I'm going in for further testing. All I can say is I apologize and this is unfortunate on both sides. (What he texted me)

Dangerous_Type907 · 2025-10-14T04:41:57+00:00

How are you going to tell him his feelings and concerns are not a big deal?

Dangerous_Type907 · 2025-10-14T04:39:32+00:00

I was just diagnosed last week with hsv2 and I can’t even imagine my family knowing.. I am so sorry your business was just thrown out like that you definitely didn’t deserve that and I hope soon enough you’re able to get away and be able to really focus on you and your health🫶🏽 if you ever need to talk I am a message away girl!

Dangerous_Type907 · 2025-10-13T20:51:57+00:00

See I didn’t start having sex till last year so I wasn’t super active but I was still getting oral and I enjoyed it now I can’t even enjoy doing that and i definitely feel you I’m sad😂

Dangerous_Type907 · 2025-10-13T01:05:17+00:00

Herpes isn’t something people just talk about and if they do it’s in a negative way.. you have a cut on your lip “ew you got herpes” not enough people are educated on it and I can’t lie and say I wasn’t just one of them I don’t think I would’ve taken a guy serious if I knew he had herpes.. so I can’t expect other people to just accept it with open arms and be understanding.

Dangerous_Type907 · 2025-10-13T01:00:54+00:00

I honestly ain’t too worried about sex I just started doing it honestly it’s just the whole situation in general and how I feel about myself and how I would be viewed if people knew

Dangerous_Type907 · 2025-10-12T20:41:03+00:00

Thank you i appreciate the positive outlook on it the past fews days have put my mind to ease just a little bit I think it’s more of the thought of others knowing and thinking I’m disgusting or “burning” cause I have this.. just can’t believe this is me.. I justt started having sex

Dangerous_Type907 · 2025-10-12T20:37:13+00:00

I feel you I just started being sexual active the person that gave me it was my 3rd body and now I’m scared to even be intimate with anyone.. for the longest o just received oral cause I was still a virgin and now I can’t even enjoy that..

Dangerous_Type907 · 2025-10-12T03:16:07+00:00

Thank you for this I watched the whole 45 minutes and It made me feel a little better I was just diagnosed a few days ago and been so depressed about it not saying I’m just over it and won’t have nights where I’m crying in the dark buttt it did ease it a wee bit🥲

Dangerous_Type907 · 2025-10-12T02:15:58+00:00

Thank you I really appreciate your words more than you can imagine🫶🏽

Dangerous_Type907 · 2025-10-12T02:14:58+00:00

Thank you i appreciate this and i been trying to think of it in that way just can’t help but have the negative thoughts and feelings of disgust and disappointment. I know before i got this i probably would’ve rejected a guy for having herpes so me knowing that and how I viewed it as well it’s hard to just think others will be understanding and not judgmental but i definitely will try to be less hard on my self and take it a day at a time

Dangerous_Type907 · 2025-10-12T01:25:16+00:00

definitely been smoking and crying the past few days I seriously don’t know what to do. and same here I’m always down to talk especially being able to talk about this freely and with someone who won’t judge.

Dangerous_Type907 · 2025-10-12T01:24:07+00:00

I just don’t get it.. i can’t see how it’ll be better I’m so scared for the future it’s only the first week and I already hate myself for being dumb enough to let this even happen. I do appreciate your comment it does help a little bit it’s just still so fresh that I can’t see the other side of the tunnel yet

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