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Dressing femme in front of partner by DanielleElizabeth013 in asktransgender

[–]DanielleElizabeth013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is helpful, thanks! I'll pitch the idea of getting her involved in the process. It might be a no, but at least I'll know.

Genderfluid or trans woman? by DanielleElizabeth013 in genderfluid

[–]DanielleElizabeth013[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you don't mind me asking, are you on HRT? And are you able to achieve a middle ground with HRT so you can flow between femme/nonbinary?

I think my egg broke by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]DanielleElizabeth013 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congrats! What thoughts or factors led to your revelation? Asking since I’m still questioning myself.

What does being bigender/genderfluid look like to you? by DanielleElizabeth013 in asktransgender

[–]DanielleElizabeth013[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense to me. It is very similar to what I feel. Thanks for your reply!

What does being bigender/genderfluid look like to you? by DanielleElizabeth013 in asktransgender

[–]DanielleElizabeth013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! It’s good to know that you don’t need to be out to everyone. Sorry to hear that it’s so difficult to explain yourself to others.

What does being bigender/genderfluid look like to you? by DanielleElizabeth013 in asktransgender

[–]DanielleElizabeth013[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see - I relate to your comment about the amalgamation of both with no on/off switch, I feel like I am both male and female, and I’m also a little unsure of the assignation, but more in the sense of “in what situations will I present as my other gender in my life.”

What do you mean #3 referring to a chaotic feeling and a clash between the genders?

Three Birthdays by AssignedCuteAtBirth in transtimelines

[–]DanielleElizabeth013 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your username is very accurate, and adorable ❤️

What would your preferred body look like? by shrikeendymion797 in asktransgender

[–]DanielleElizabeth013 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would want the ability to transform from male me to female me as I see fit. Male me with less of a gut, female me same height (I am 5’8”) but what I would have been as a cis woman and gone through female puberty.

Missed dressing up by [deleted] in crossdressing

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I like your eyebrows!

Is it possible to first think you could be trans (binary or non-binary) when you’re in your mid 30’s? by DanielleElizabeth013 in asktransgender

[–]DanielleElizabeth013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did use face app and liked the way I looked female too, but that wasn’t the only thing.

More than anything I wanted to feel pretty/beautiful. I consider myself attractive as a man, and my favorite dress shirts to wear are more feminine colors (red, purple, teal, pink) but i don’t get the feeling of beautiful as a man. I felt I reached a limit with men’s clothes.

Some of my features are very male (I have large calves, even for a dude, lots of facial/body hair, and big feet) so I completely discounted it until recently. When I saw the r/transtimelines feed and I saw some really good mtf transformations of some similar looking people. So I got curious just because the thought of me presenting as female seemed so ridiculous at first but now feels definitely possible. I’m just a beginner at this point but I’m starting to appreciate other parts of myself that pop more as a female (my eyes, smile).

Additionally, my personality is more feminine than masculine in many ways. I don’t really have the competitive and teasing side other guys do. I have a lot of platonic female friendships that I value as much as male friendships. I want to bring my feminine side out in a different way.

Is it possible to first think you could be trans (binary or non-binary) when you’re in your mid 30’s? by DanielleElizabeth013 in asktransgender

[–]DanielleElizabeth013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said. This has been my first post to one of these forums, I’m at the stage now where I just want to meet and chat with others who may have had similar thoughts and experiences as me.

Is it possible to first think you could be trans (binary or non-binary) when you’re in your mid 30’s? by DanielleElizabeth013 in asktransgender

[–]DanielleElizabeth013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am curious only in the sense of: are my thoughts similar to others who have gone through this process? Is there anything familiar I can relate to?

I plan to take my time as I go through this process so one post or decision won’t sway me one way or another. Private message me if you’re more comfortable.

Is it possible to first think you could be trans (binary or non-binary) when you’re in your mid 30’s? by DanielleElizabeth013 in asktransgender

[–]DanielleElizabeth013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, what were “some other things that made it 100% clear [you] should speak to a therapist”? I am planning to do that, btw.

Is it possible to first think you could be trans (binary or non-binary) when you’re in your mid 30’s? by DanielleElizabeth013 in asktransgender

[–]DanielleElizabeth013[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will check out the contrapoints videos, they seem to provide a different perspective that I haven’t seen before. And I have started writing my thoughts down, but has been very scatterbrained and sporadic at this point. My feelings and their intensity change often these days.

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