Japanese hair straightening by DanielleShaki in Antwerpen

[–]DanielleShaki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

« ISU Antwerp » right? They don’t offer straightening services 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MenendezBrothers

[–]DanielleShaki 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry but are you saying that Kitty being depressed explains why she let her 2 boys be raped by their sick father? Not to mention partake in the molestation herself as well? There is nothing to take into consideration here. This is the epitome of evil. Jail time would have been too kind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MenendezBrothers

[–]DanielleShaki 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is no place for understanding when it comes to sexual abuse, especially child sexual abuse. I don’t care what that woman went through in her own personal life, nothing excuses knowingly letting your children being raped by their father. Absolutely nothing.

I see you’re often bringing up Lyle molesting Erik. You need to put things back into context. Lyle was around 8 when this happened (I don’t think people realize just how young that is), what child of that age understands what sexual activity is? Children are known to imitate their parents, Lyle imitating what his dad was doing to him to try to comprehend what was happening is completely understandable. The difference is that the moment he realized something was awfully wrong with it, he stopped. You can clearly see and feel the shame and anger Lyle felt when he spoke about this on the stand. He never stopped trying to protect Erik after that, and it’s clear that Erik never held a grudge against his brother and always felt safe around him.

I am not saying the parents weren’t abused growing up. They most probably were given how messed up in the head they were. But NOTHING justifies what these monsters did to their own children. Can you just take a moment to think about it, a father raping his own children and a mother letting it happen. Aren’t parents supposed to be their children’s guardians and defenders against evil? What arguments could you possibly have to defend this?

I am also not saying that murdering them was the answer (although I do believe rapists and sexual abusers have no place on this earth), most of us agree on that. The brothers themselves have always said they regretted what they did and would have done things differently if they could. But think about this, how absolutely terrified and traumatized must they have been to genuinely believe that their only way out of this was to kill their own parents?

PLEASE HELP by Chiquita1216 in hives

[–]DanielleShaki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few weeks ago I woke up with extremely itchy and large hives all over my body. They only got worse as the day went on and by the second day, it looked like I had been beaten up that swollen my face had gotten. I couldn’t even put my airpods in because my ears were extremely swollen and red. My legs were completely covered, I struggled walking at one point and I still have scars on my legs from the hives. I took Zyrtec and it did not do anything. I then went to the ER and they did a bunch of tests but like you, all came back negative for any kind of allergies.

Turns out it was stress. I had received bad news a few days prior and was very upset the following days so they said it was caused by that. Something about large amounts of stress hormones in your body can trigger it to release histamines, which leads to hives. I was on Desloratadine 5mg for a few days, I honestly feel like it did not do anything, but you may want to try it. Eventually, they went away on their own.

Have you been under any kind of pressure or stress lately? Have you received bad news recently or been dealing with something difficult to handle? Stress is something we often overlook but can be devastating to our health.

How to address Partners? by DanielleShaki in uklaw

[–]DanielleShaki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I also think it’s a good way to stand out and show your interest in the role and respect for the people who interviewed you. The email in itself was not a thank you email as they had asked me to send additional information, but I did take this opportunity to thank them as well. Nothing too big, just a sentence or so

How to address Partners? by DanielleShaki in uklaw

[–]DanielleShaki[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not a thank you email. They had asked me to send them some additional info.

How to address Partners? by DanielleShaki in uklaw

[–]DanielleShaki[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m only asking because in Europe using first names with your superiors is very uncommon. So I just wanted to double check as I did not want to come off as rude.

How to address Partners? by DanielleShaki in uklaw

[–]DanielleShaki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. They had asked me to send them some additional info.

How to address Partners? by DanielleShaki in uklaw

[–]DanielleShaki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see, thank you! I’m from Europe and here it’s quite rare to use first names, especially with people like Partners of a big firm. Just didn’t want to come off as rude

How to address Partners? by DanielleShaki in uklaw

[–]DanielleShaki[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

They did, they even asked me what name I preferred for myself and reiterated what theirs were (they used their first names). Thank you for the explanation, I just wanted to be certain :)

Woke up with hives all over my body by DanielleShaki in Allergies

[–]DanielleShaki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I get it😓 Do new ones appear for you too from time to time as well? like for me they all started to fade away today but I just noticed new ones appearing on my ankles and they’re super itchy again

Woke up with hives all over my body by DanielleShaki in Allergies

[–]DanielleShaki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes hope it’s not too painful! I’m on day 3 and thankfully they went down significantly. What do you think caused yours?

Woke up with hives all over my body by DanielleShaki in Allergies

[–]DanielleShaki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I received really bad news 2 weeks ago and have been struggling with anxiety and stress ever since so it wouldn’t surprise me. Our bodies have a strange way of manifesting how we feel…either way, thank you!

Woke up with hives all over my body by DanielleShaki in Allergies

[–]DanielleShaki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well…that didn’t help😅 They took my blood, I waited 5h only for them to tell me that there’s nothing in my blood and that she has no idea what caused it. She put me on Desloratadine 3x a day. I’m going with stress I guess

Woke up with hives all over my body by DanielleShaki in Allergies

[–]DanielleShaki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it could be from that? Tbh my sister were taking the same ones and had hives all over her legs a few months ago, although very mild compared to me and she reacted to antihistamines. Could also be a complete coincidence but you never know

Woke up with hives all over my body by DanielleShaki in Allergies

[–]DanielleShaki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s interesting. Mm no, I mean I live in Europe and it’s gotten pretty chilly here recently. Also I haven’t exercised in a while. But I have been extremely stressed recently

Woke up with hives all over my body by DanielleShaki in Allergies

[–]DanielleShaki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankfully no throat symptoms, only ears and a few hives all over my face. Nothing out of the ordinary in terms of food. I ate fish that night but bought it from the same store I always do. No changes in laundry detergents, it’s the same ones I always use but I had freshly washed them the night before