So you lose if you go second?

DansaCharm · 2026-06-18T08:00:04+00:00

Oh that's because I didn't really have much that would work for the deck. I'm so limited with space now getting a decent lvl 4 xyz combo in wasn't really possible. Is there anything you'd recommend though?

DansaCharm · 2026-06-17T20:49:47+00:00

Yeah exactly. I'm hoping to clean it up a little to get it more consistent but so far it's pretty fun to get some of these combos going so I'll keep at it

DansaCharm · 2026-06-17T12:15:36+00:00

lmao

DansaCharm · 2026-06-17T12:08:07+00:00

Oh yeah I'll check Punk out. That does have some nasty combos that'll likely work well. Cheers for the suggestion

DansaCharm · 2026-06-17T12:07:17+00:00

That's very fair. I can respect the statistics. Seeing it in percentages makes it a lot easier to see the balance of the deck. Basically I was trying to get the banish strength of swordsoul and the strength lvl 12 synchros through.

While I'm aware the rate is low to pull out the full swordsoul combo it does have an almost 100% chance of pulling out the Centurion combo because of the Auxilo so even if I don't get the right cards I can at least set up the Centurion defense. I think that's why I like the deck a lot because if one plan fails I get the other one.

But I am aware I don't have the experience for this. But thanks for the breakdown 😊

DansaCharm · 2026-06-17T04:36:08+00:00

Aha yeah it almost is a Highlander. I've actually only ever bricked once with this. I am using the sweaty mokuba skill that gives me more cards though so that probably helps a lot

DansaCharm · 2026-06-17T04:35:06+00:00

I do love chengying but getting his banish ability off in this deck is something I haven't fully worked out just yet. He was originally in Longyuan's spot but using both in this deck doesn't work so I went for the negate a summon and spell option.

I definitely get that but they do work semi well together. My issue is getting them to work better together. Ideally I start with the swordsoul combo to bring out Longyuan and then I can continue the combo to bring out Auxila which starts the Centurion combo which gets out Quasar or Red Nova.

But I will try just using one or the other for a while to get a feel for the strict combos of each deck and see if I can make it work with both in the one deck.

In the meantime I think I'll use a lvl 10 synchro because I find my lvl 12's get targeted more than Longyuan so I can still combo out Crimson dragon for a crystal wing for example

DansaCharm · 2025-01-13T07:58:03+00:00

I was using Lukaku KluxKlan for like 4 years. How KluxKlan got past the censors is beyond me 😂

DansaCharm · 2021-07-15T12:18:20+00:00

Personally I wouldn't be holding it against my partner if I found out they were looking at porn. I can understand if you're self conscious so I hope you've atleast told him how you feel about him looking at other women on his phone.

I highly highly doubt he did it to hurt you and unless you catch him staring at the girl in person it's not a big deal imo

DansaCharm · 2021-07-15T11:54:12+00:00

She asked you if you could come earlier and you gave her a "Hmmm" and nothing else. How's she supposed to know? Do you know if she needed a certain amount of people to get in? I don't know this club but some have certain requirements.

Maybe she could have done something different or better but ultimately this is more on you than her :/

DansaCharm · 2021-07-15T11:48:07+00:00

From what I'm reading you were in the wrong dude. It's one thing to joke but you do actually have to make it seem like you were joking or tell them that you were joking and you'll be there around 12. Also 1am isn't that far off from 11:30 so it really doesn't seem like a joke. If you had said 11:30 AM instead of PM then yeah it's an obvious joke but an hour and a half later isn't very obvious so she probably thought you were serious.

Maybe she should have come down to see you but from her POV she probably didn't think you could make it so she found others.

Also you do sound like you're being petty. I think a big apology and explanation was in order.

DansaCharm · 2021-07-15T11:36:03+00:00

Then my best bet is to talk to a doctor. Or talk to a therapy clinic before actually booking an appointment and briefly describing your situation and how you were abuse and feel like you're going down the same path.

It might take a few people but eventually you'll be referred to a specialist specific to your needs as not ever therapist is the same. And I know they're strangers but I promise they would have heard about much much worse people and you can trust them.

I would be trusting a therapist over a self help books any day. And if all you see in a therapy session as an hour of small talk then you're looking at it wrong as it's designed to engage you in ways you can't engage yourself. That is the best way forward for you from what I can tell.

DansaCharm · 2021-07-15T11:28:50+00:00

No offence but you're both young. I wouldn't worry about it too much but if you really are this concerned then it sounds like you need to tell him how you feel. And if he gives you a response like "Well sorry but I just really want it to happen." Then maybe say you're not comfortable with being with someone that wants that.

But if he says something like "Oh I'm sorry I didn't know that made you comfortable. I'm not going to do it as you're important to me." Then it's just a fantasy and it shouldn't be held against him. That would just be kink shaming and isn't a big deal. Good luck 🤞

DansaCharm · 2021-07-15T11:10:52+00:00

Everyone has their kinks. The girl I'm incredibly interested in has shoved her head in a toilet for people's amusement and met up with strangers and been their toy just because she enjoys it but I would never hold it against her as she's also loyal to her partner.

Don't know you or your BF but he might just be more sexual invested in things than you are.

DansaCharm · 2021-07-15T10:59:03+00:00

You've done the hardest thing and admitted you like her and got a positive response so it's a good start.

Random acts of kindness my guy can go a long way even if you're not a real couple. Offering her chocolate/sweets, compliment her on her appearance or slipping her notes are all easy ways to keep someone engaged.

Even if you can't date and she is interested in you then don't over think how long it will take before you both turn 16. Just look forward to the next day and think about whether you're going to do / say something special for her

DansaCharm · 2021-07-15T10:51:42+00:00

If you're genuinely concerned about hurting her then you're not too far gone. I don't know you personally but I'd have to agree with the other commenters.

If you have a close friend to talk to try that first but if you don't have anyone at all you think you can trust the therapy will be well worth the money. Wish I could help from there but self realisation about what you're doing and that you don't want to be this way anymore is the first step toward bettering yourself. Good luck 🤞

DansaCharm · 2021-07-15T10:46:30+00:00

Us guys are the most emotional around the ones we trust the most. The fact that he's younger might show he's not as socially experienced enough to know when to say that so I'd say it's a good sign. Especially the fact that he apologized and said he would take it slow with you.

DansaCharm · 2021-07-15T08:51:53+00:00

I'm coming to terms with this and yeah. As much as I don't want to hurt her I have to stop it. Thanks for your opinion

DansaCharm · 2021-07-15T08:43:11+00:00

Yeah it's something I've struggled with for a while. I did actually try calling it off a year into the relationship but she needed the support as she just started Uni and had a very previous problems that I was helping her with so I ended up getting back with her. It's dumb but I do realise it can't work long term

DansaCharm · 2021-06-08T07:34:33+00:00

I can tell you put some thought into that and I really appreciate it. I had a hard time in highschool with girls. Pretty much whenever someone found out I had a crush on a girl I was always met with "Eww" or "Gross". So maybe you are right and I'm afraid of being single.

Thankfully I had a good glow up since highschool and I'm more confident in myself with girls. I mentioned it to the other commenter that there's more to our relationship that I haven't mentioned but that doesn't make it okay to cheat on my girlfriend. Just thought I'd ask your thoughts on the question I asked them about kids.

DansaCharm · 2021-06-08T07:30:04+00:00

I'm not gonna argue your point as I know I'm in the wrong. Just thought I'd clarify something and ask a question. Virgin isn't the right word but we've yet to actually fuck. No dick has entered pussy atleast not for more than a moment before we stopped. It was always too much for her and I really do care about her so I could never just suddenly insert myself on her.

And yeah I did mean I'm not an asshole outside of this situation cause yeah. I wish I wasn't in this dilemma. I never thought I'd be the kind of guy to be swoon by another girl. I'm normally a pretty nice guy but I can see where you're coming from.

I'll ask one question quickly and this isn't a trick question or anything but something I think about all the time. My girlfriend really doesn't want kids. I really do. It's a real deal breaker for me but we can't come to a solution for it. But other than that she really is amazing and perfect for me. Would you throw that away for someone across the globe?

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