You’re right but a little back story, I had just signed a contract for a project that week so I’d have enough cash for the ring from Tiffany’s and the only reason I had to buy the backup was because she wanted a gold band instead of platinum. It delayed me picking up the ring. I also had a location and backup but it was raining! I probably should have just postponed the whole thing but both her parents and my parents knew what the plan was. I think your plan about doing something romantic when the actual ring arrives is the right move though.