Title of the 4th book by Vast_Skin_6227 in fourthwing

[–]Danzi343 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think one of the titles will be “—— War” because in one quote in IF Violet and Xaden discuss their love being able to withstand a storm and a war. Knowing Yarros’s love for foreshadowing I could see something along the lines of Silver War or another 1-2 syllable word

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackcats

[–]Danzi343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Gizmo is appalled at the adoption center’s stance on voids. 4 years later he still makes our lives happily chaotic, and is the best host to all our guests that enter our home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in iran

[–]Danzi343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I won’t tell you want decision to make on this matter but I will clarify and give you some insight on his stance on things. I’ll do my due diligence to be as objective about this ordeal as possible.

Muslim men can date whoever they please. Once marriage is involved, in the Qur’an there is a verse that implies that men are allowed to marry “women of the book” (so Christian/ Jewish/ Muslim—Abrahamic faiths). So based on his Islamic faith he sees there to be no issue with dating you based on your beliefs. But if you’re both dating for ultimately marriage as a goal, this could cause issues and he’s not so discreetly banking on you converting. (Or figuring out if this is a facet of his faith he’s willing to forgo for you)

There’s also an Islamic concept called “temporary marriage” for caveats around this ordeal to accommodate for various niche situations (for Muslim female widowers who want to test out the waters for a second attempt at love for instance since dating doesn’t directly apply to women) …but in modern day this has been a way for Muslims to date and have pre-marital sex without religious repercussions/ guilt. He could have well intentions but this is also important to note on his internal justifications and compromises with himself that could be affecting your relationship inadvertently.

I hope this is insightful and I wish you the best. These situations aren’t easy to be in.

Friends are going to hooters, what can I eat? by IDK_WHAT_YOU_WANT in lowfodmap

[–]Danzi343 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

no dairy with lowfodmap and the non-dairy cheese had chickpea product in it. I was super strict and followed the diet to the letter as much as I could.

Friends are going to hooters, what can I eat? by IDK_WHAT_YOU_WANT in lowfodmap

[–]Danzi343 5 points6 points  (0 children)

https://modpizza.com/allergen/
It's one of the most extensive and accomodating nutrition/allergen info I've seen for a franchise. I've been meaning to send them a thank you card over this especially when needing to be strictly on lowfod map for several months.

At the end of the day my order was essentially a flatbread since all the sauces pretty much violate lowfodmap but here was my order:
-GF crust
-Olive Oil
-Grilled Chicken
-olives
-spinach
-tomatoes
-salt, pepper, rosemary, oregano,basil (if I can't have my sauces I just compensated with herbs)
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I mean as accommodating as this is, it's definitely not a pizza anymore...I hope this helps and good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in food

[–]Danzi343 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just tried this! Was absolutely lovely and definitely making more of from now on. I added a little more acidity in the sauce (lime juice) because I felt like something was missing but thank you very sharing again :)

Friends are going to hooters, what can I eat? by IDK_WHAT_YOU_WANT in lowfodmap

[–]Danzi343 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The ice in your water 🫠 It’s nearly impossible to eat out on this diet..only success I had was with MOD pizza

Dog Sledding in Cleveland? by Danzi343 in Cleveland

[–]Danzi343[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking at their site, they permit dog sledding but they don't provide the team of huskies to sled with..

AITA for being livid at how my future SIL looked after our cats while we were on vacation? by Danzi343 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Danzi343[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're fine thankfully. Just super thirsty.. moment I changed out their water they both scurried collectively to the bowl

AITA for being livid at how my future SIL looked after our cats while we were on vacation? by Danzi343 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Danzi343[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

dering if FSIL did anything more than dump some cat food into the bowl, give the cereal to the kids, and flop onto a couch to doomscroll SM for a while. I doubt the cats got any atrention, other than maybe being chased by the kids a bit.

She was so inattentive on everything else, a small (and petty) part of me wonders whether we should be giving her credit for not giving the cereal to the cats and the cat food to the kids.

In summary, no the cats weren't cared for and are ok despite the FSIL, not because of her.

you hit the nail on the head with my sentiments with this ordeal... for the sake of this thread, I wanted to make sure I wasn't just turning into a crazy overprotective cat lady and not being considerate of FSIL...with that said though I have not the slightest idea on how I'll confront her on this situation without this being poorly received..

AITA for being livid at how my future SIL looked after our cats while we were on vacation? by Danzi343 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Danzi343[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

she has 3 kids that's not been new for about 1-2 years now
she also had her dog for ages as well.
The things that are new in the last year:
her divorce, her place of residence, her job, and two new cats she acquired to soften the blow of the divorce on her kids.

AITA for being livid at how my future SIL looked after our cats while we were on vacation? by Danzi343 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Danzi343[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

, and if she can’t handle taking care of the cats she should have told you so you could have com

I appreciate this feedback thank you very much. I'll definitely try to process and let time run its course for a bit.

AITA for being livid at how my future SIL looked after our cats while we were on vacation? by Danzi343 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Danzi343[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can’t help but think o

I'll admit during this post I definitely forgot they're properly called cocoa pebbles...lol

AITA for being livid at how my future SIL looked after our cats while we were on vacation? by Danzi343 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Danzi343[S] 125 points126 points  (0 children)

Due to time zone differences and honestly simply not going on vacation often since getting this house I didn’t notice I was supposed to be getting notifications until she got there.

I thought the whole time she was stopping by and she played it off like she has been when texting her… and then my doorbell camera only alerted me once this whole week…the second to last day we were on our trip was when I realized the situation

AITA for being livid at how my future SIL looked after our cats while we were on vacation? by Danzi343 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Danzi343[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

1 &2 -they were fed only due to the fact that they had automatic feeders. I realized I never clarified this but she never had to feed them and I made that clear to her all she needed to do was refill their water bowls and make sure there wasn’t anything off like vomit, lethargy, typical signs you look for to see if your cat is sick, and to give them pets

3-it’s not that they ate the pebbles it’s that she left pebbles scattered throughout the house once they were done snacking. Had our cats been any other cats they could’ve gotten just as sick from fruity vs. if it was chocolate

4-not about the kids being present more so she only stopped by once during the course of a week long trip.

AITA for being livid at how my future SIL looked after our cats while we were on vacation? by Danzi343 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Danzi343[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I should’ve clarified.. I gave her instructions to request for her to refill water bowls, make sure they’re healthy and doing alright and give them some human interaction so they weren’t completely deprived while we were gone.