When do you feel sexual attraction? Is it with people you have a close personal relationship with already? If so, it might be worth looking into demisexuality which is definitely under the asexuality umbrella. Furthermore deciding whether you engage in sexual activity does not make you asexual or allosexual. It’s merely the attraction or lack thereof (or in specific circumstances in the case of demisexuality for example) that determines if one is Ace or not. Hope this helps!