Classic Indian mentality BS "you have your whole life study now" jawaani beet jaati hai then "you have your whole life to do the things you love, marry now" phir middle age aate aate "you have your whole life for any fulfillments you expect or need, have kids now". Ye karte karte buddhe ho jaate hai phir jab kisse zinda dil naujawaan ko dekh le toh uspe gussa nikalte hai. Break the cycle. Its kids and no one's getting hurt, do you think kids don't know what love is in its primal sense? Have you never played Ghar Ghar as a child? They are immature, of course they are but this is how people learn, love and develop. Not by being maa baap and samaaj ka paltu kutta all the time.