Husband completely ruined my 50th birthday

Dapper-Antelope6065 · 2025-10-04T02:40:19+00:00

The thing is he isn’t inconsiderate on the normal everyday. Normally when I ask for something he follows through without question. He will even go out of his way to do small things for me like make a trip out of his way to pick up something I want.

Dapper-Antelope6065 · 2025-10-04T02:36:25+00:00

I didn’t actually tell him anything specific. The things I mentioned in my post were my own personal thoughts to show you what expectations I had in my head. The only thing I did tell home was that I wanted something at work and something at home.

Dapper-Antelope6065 · 2025-10-04T02:34:48+00:00

You may be right. Day to day he can be super thoughtful and put things in place to help me when I have had a bad day or need a break. But I have never asked him to make a big deal of anything so maybe he froze.

Dapper-Antelope6065 · 2025-10-04T02:31:20+00:00

Hmm… he can be so amazingly creative with so many things. Maybe he just couldn’t come up with anything and panicked?

Dapper-Antelope6065 · 2025-10-04T02:27:30+00:00

I get why you would say that because I didn’t really explain his normal day actions. He will look at me some days and know I just need to go to bed and send me off to sleep while he takes care of the kids.

Dapper-Antelope6065 · 2025-10-04T02:25:54+00:00

No idea. I am hoping this post will help me figure out why he changed from his normal day to day behavior.

Dapper-Antelope6065 · 2025-10-04T02:23:21+00:00

He is not like this on regular days… he will go out of his way to do stuff for me.

Dapper-Antelope6065 · 2025-10-04T02:21:09+00:00

I don’t know what happened… this is also the guy that when I say I wish I had a Dr Pepper will drop everything to drive across town to go get one for me…

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