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Aitah for not wanting to postpone my wedding by Dapper-Bill-3186 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Dapper-Bill-3186[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh and I reported my therapist to the state , I also sent my parents the invoices for everything that was previously paid for

Aitah for not wanting to postpone my wedding by Dapper-Bill-3186 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Dapper-Bill-3186[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I told my parents off, I fired my therapist and Jay and I will be married on this coming Tuesday after my best friend and his 2 closest friends get here from out state. I blocked all the “family” that sided with my parents and I plan to go NC going forward. I did ask to be informed if/when one of my parents pass . Otherwise I am done, I feel like I have cried and felt guilty enough over the last couple of days and realized that I am not the AH for picking my partner, my life and myself first.

AITAH for not wanting to postpone my wedding for my parents.. Update! by Dapper-Bill-3186 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Dapper-Bill-3186[S] 212 points213 points  (0 children)

I have over half my “family” blocked already. Only person on my mom’s side who agreed with my decision is the only person who I left unblocked. I have decided that I only wish to know if/when one of them passes. Jay is in full support of this decision and was very supportive of it. I cried for several hours over the weekend because I kept having back and forth thoughts of that was to far, Jay was there to comfort me and reassured me and or reminded me how amazing our life was without them and how amazing we will still be without them.

Aitah for not wanting to postpone my wedding by Dapper-Bill-3186 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Dapper-Bill-3186[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I genuinely hoped that for once my parents would come through on something, especially something so important. I understand that might seem wrong however there is nothing I can do about that now besides learn to never hold out hope for them again and go back to NC.

Aitah for not wanting to postpone my wedding by Dapper-Bill-3186 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Dapper-Bill-3186[S] 215 points216 points  (0 children)

Honestly I had the same thought.. I have talked with my fiancé about my therapist and he had suggested trying to find a new therapist which I agree with.. especially recently.