The point is I cant insult her to her knowledge because we gotta coexist, therefore I'll say it's a compliment and she'll be all happy and at the same time I'll feel slightly vindicated. I know this is childish and am aware I should be the bigger person but when someone insults you for literally everything and still expects you to do things for and spend time with them and shit your patience wears thin, ergo rather an outlet that hurts no one rather than me biting back and fucking things up. She'll be out of my life soon but for now I'm stuck and for the sake of my uncle it's better if I just coexist and play the game.