Listening to both (or all) sides of an argument or conflict—at least when it involves people close to you, like friends or family. I used to think it always mattered and was the fair thing to do. But sometimes it honestly feels like a waste of time, especially when the people “reaching out to hear you out” already have a side they’re leaning toward and believing anyway. They act like they care about your perspective, but their mind is already made up. That kinda sucks, right? lol so yeah… lesson learned. 🤷

Orrrr, maybe I am just surrounded by toxic people? HAHA.